"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spirituality also comes with practicality, simplicity and being mature

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This I had to learn over time, that just because you’ve learned an esoteric teaching, or some special mantra or you’ve been ‘born again’ or found a new faith….we tend to retreat into some sort of special shell we got ourselves in.

Okay you’ve found some added bliss and want to retreat in the mountains somewhere…..how about you first start off by taking frequent showers during the day, take care of yourself hygienically, have a good work out routine during the week, get a part time job, give to charity, work on your friends and family relationships and stop jerking off to porn or people on social media? lol start off there.


You got to start off with the basics before you can kick through bricks in a karate class.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi Travels,
Never ever worked out the rationale of those who seemingly see cleanliness as next to Godliness...Seems to go against most ascetics lack of any ablutions...In Medieval times the epitome of Spirituality were the Anchorites,they walled themselves in,not much room for a Bath...Then to the contrary,there was dear old Diogenes,he lived in a barrel of water LOL.
 
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