"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spiritual Lessons and Quotes

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rory your posts have been great, keep it up, this forum needs more information like that.

I have my self have also given up on learning more seduction skills and started working on my spiritual growth.

because "unless you start loving yourself, no-one else wont"

keep it up... and if you are interested in spiritual growth - dr Wayne Dyer is the way to go
 

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I know i'm being a bit unorthodox here, but also consider doing some drugs. DONT use them recreationally and also only use the right ones. An LSA or LSD trip spent examining your spirit and mind can give you a lot of insight about life and a better appreciation for it. Also, dont be scared of a "bad" trip. There is no such thing as a "bad" trip, because you need to experience that to truly appreciate the good trip and the goodness of life in general.

And if you want to go all out, go to south america and spend a month with a shaman doing ayahuasca. I've heard of people getting off of 20 years of depression after 1 trip.
 
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clix... if you do not know what you are talking about then please shut up.
I have friends who have done all sorts of drugs and all it does is fukk you up.
One of them said and it has been proven by medicine also i belive that if you take the drug the side effects might occur years later.
 

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just another newb?? said:
clix... if you do not know what you are talking about then please shut up.
I have friends who have done all sorts of drugs and all it does is fukk you up.
One of them said and it has been proven by medicine also i belive that if you take the drug the side effects might occur years later.
hey man, it's really immature that you see the word drugs and immediately tell me to shut the **** up. You dont believe in drug use? what about taking a tylenol for a headache? I'm not advocating recreational heroin use, i'm suggesting reading up on and trying one of the many plants that civilizations that came long before you used to search within themselves and speak to their gods.

You should really try to read up on shamanism. I would never go near cocaine, heroin, pcp, dxm, or any of those addicting recreational drugs, but if I felt that my soul was at the right state, I wouldnt mind taking something to help me look further within it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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