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spinning plates without getting caught at college?

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drift king

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how does one spin plates without getting busted in a campus based college setting?

i've tried to pick up many girls at my college and because my game still isn't airtight, despite getting the numbers im going through a lot of women quite quickly and getting caught.

at college as large as the place is there is a finite number of hot girls, and generally as a rule of thumb they seem to know each other if not directly in each others social circle. some know each other because they congregate in their respective nationalities. so if i go for 1 and fail then try to go for her hot friend, it won't happen.. it's like if try it with 1 and fail all her friends are off limits which is a pain in the a$$.

how do you spin plates in a college campus setting without getting caught?
 

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You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're not exclusive, then I can't see how this is a problem.

It sounds like you may be coming across as a bit creepy maybe as you're hitting on everything in sight? Expand your horizons, hit bars, clubs, societies etc that you wouldn't normally go to?

Be selective, choose the finest stakes, even though you can have the cheaper ones for a similar cost.
 
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Hughman said:
If you're not exclusive, then I can't see how this is a problem.

It sounds like you may be coming across as a bit creepy maybe as you're hitting on everything in sight? Expand your horizons, hit bars, clubs, societies etc that you wouldn't normally go to?

Be selective, choose the finest stakes, even though you can have the cheaper ones for a similar cost.
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its more the impression you give off that if you tried it with her, you've tried it with her hot friends she doesn't feel special.

it's a shame that all the hot girls are in 1 building on campus and the chances of getting caught are high. i already have a rep of trying it with different girls that i've been burnt, most are leaving soon so im waiting for the summer school lot to arrive and i want to make sure i do it right.

what i mean, is if i try it with 1 and fail, then try with her hot friend, she's off limits, and her friend doesn't want anything to do with me cos she feels 2nd best and not special, its not possible to get around this is it?
 
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Wen i was in college... there was no problem who i slept with. Even if the girls knew each other.

You just need to make sure your having nsa sex and not exclusive with the girl.
 
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You need to make it so being around you is so good that the girl will brag about you to her friends. And like the poster above make it clear that it's NSA. That way when she tells her hot friends they will all come to you automatically.
 

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drift king said:
its more the impression you give off that if you tried it with her, you've tried it with her hot friends she doesn't feel special.

it's a shame that all the hot girls are in 1 building on campus and the chances of getting caught are high. i already have a rep of trying it with different girls that i've been burnt, most are leaving soon so im waiting for the summer school lot to arrive and i want to make sure i do it right.

what i mean, is if i try it with 1 and fail, then try with her hot friend, she's off limits, and her friend doesn't want anything to do with me cos she feels 2nd best and not special, its not possible to get around this is it?
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That's been my problem with me in high school (it's all male, so access to women was damn hard until the past few months). They don't seem to understand that I can fancy several of them at the same time, or that I can flick my interest between them at the swish of a hat. Chumps...(yes, women can be damn chumpish too)
 
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You need to change your perspective from pickup to social circle game. Escalation in college is almost a given as long as you can isolate the girl, so all you need to do is appear as a really friendly, in-the-know guy who knows where the party is at and knows the people who are having the party. Spend your time making friends with a few party hosts and hang out at the same few locations all the time so you become a regular. Then talk to girl in a friendly way (no need for "game") isolate (hey you want to come check out my room?) and once there escalate. I wish someone had told me this when I was in college :(
 
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