"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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spinning plates without getting caught at college?

drift king

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how does one spin plates without getting busted in a campus based college setting?

i've tried to pick up many girls at my college and because my game still isn't airtight, despite getting the numbers im going through a lot of women quite quickly and getting caught.

at college as large as the place is there is a finite number of hot girls, and generally as a rule of thumb they seem to know each other if not directly in each others social circle. some know each other because they congregate in their respective nationalities. so if i go for 1 and fail then try to go for her hot friend, it won't happen.. it's like if try it with 1 and fail all her friends are off limits which is a pain in the a$$.

how do you spin plates in a college campus setting without getting caught?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hughman

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If you're not exclusive, then I can't see how this is a problem.

It sounds like you may be coming across as a bit creepy maybe as you're hitting on everything in sight? Expand your horizons, hit bars, clubs, societies etc that you wouldn't normally go to?

Be selective, choose the finest stakes, even though you can have the cheaper ones for a similar cost.
 

drift king

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Hughman said:
If you're not exclusive, then I can't see how this is a problem.

It sounds like you may be coming across as a bit creepy maybe as you're hitting on everything in sight? Expand your horizons, hit bars, clubs, societies etc that you wouldn't normally go to?

Be selective, choose the finest stakes, even though you can have the cheaper ones for a similar cost.
its more the impression you give off that if you tried it with her, you've tried it with her hot friends she doesn't feel special.

it's a shame that all the hot girls are in 1 building on campus and the chances of getting caught are high. i already have a rep of trying it with different girls that i've been burnt, most are leaving soon so im waiting for the summer school lot to arrive and i want to make sure i do it right.

what i mean, is if i try it with 1 and fail, then try with her hot friend, she's off limits, and her friend doesn't want anything to do with me cos she feels 2nd best and not special, its not possible to get around this is it?
 

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Wen i was in college... there was no problem who i slept with. Even if the girls knew each other.

You just need to make sure your having nsa sex and not exclusive with the girl.
 

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You need to make it so being around you is so good that the girl will brag about you to her friends. And like the poster above make it clear that it's NSA. That way when she tells her hot friends they will all come to you automatically.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hughman

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drift king said:
its more the impression you give off that if you tried it with her, you've tried it with her hot friends she doesn't feel special.

it's a shame that all the hot girls are in 1 building on campus and the chances of getting caught are high. i already have a rep of trying it with different girls that i've been burnt, most are leaving soon so im waiting for the summer school lot to arrive and i want to make sure i do it right.

what i mean, is if i try it with 1 and fail, then try with her hot friend, she's off limits, and her friend doesn't want anything to do with me cos she feels 2nd best and not special, its not possible to get around this is it?
That's been my problem with me in high school (it's all male, so access to women was damn hard until the past few months). They don't seem to understand that I can fancy several of them at the same time, or that I can flick my interest between them at the swish of a hat. Chumps...(yes, women can be damn chumpish too)
 

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You need to change your perspective from pickup to social circle game. Escalation in college is almost a given as long as you can isolate the girl, so all you need to do is appear as a really friendly, in-the-know guy who knows where the party is at and knows the people who are having the party. Spend your time making friends with a few party hosts and hang out at the same few locations all the time so you become a regular. Then talk to girl in a friendly way (no need for "game") isolate (hey you want to come check out my room?) and once there escalate. I wish someone had told me this when I was in college :(
 
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