"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spinning plates without alcohol? Where to meet women besides bar/internet?

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Greetings men,

This is one I have wrestled with for years internally but now that I have this community I will pitch it to you guys. I have been spinning plates for many years now, slept with over 100 women, as well as a few good and bad LTR's. My screen name was not chosen arbitrarily, though I have a career now making six figures I also bartended for 10+ years as a side job. I'm late 30's now, In my 20 plus years spinning plates I have not met any venue that beats a bar to meet women. Grocery stores, yoga classes, college, etc. Nowhere else can you find what you find in the bar, as far as so many attractive women that are out to meet men, party, sex, etc. I should mention I live in a party city, I realize not all places are the same. I do well on tinder/bumble, honestly about 1/3 the women I slept with this year are from there. But it doesn't have the same exhilarating thrill of the hunt as being in a bar or club. Where do you meet women besides bar/internet? Basically.... day game, I know you can meet women ANYWHERE but in your opinion or experience have you met or do you meet women in places that destroys the bar/club environment?

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeOnThePrize

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it depends on the guy. some excel at classroom game, others at bars, others at the beach, etc. some are well rounded and can do well pretty much anywhere. i picked up girls in 'troubled teen' meetings when i was 16 and do well in school/work settings. bars are tougher for me, but i'm workin on it.
 
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