Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
I know you should be spinning, as many girls as possible, so you have backups, and so you dont fall into AFC mode, but how should you handle it, if one of your plates, wants to date, or shes gone??
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What has she done to prove to you that she is worth dating?Hockey Playa said:I know you should be spinning, as many girls as possible, so you have backups, and so you dont fall into AFC mode, but how should you handle it, if one of your plates, wants to date, or shes gone??
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this is anti-hor defens - "ralationships" have taken the place of marriage as a legitimate status to justify a woman's sexual conduct - this was the femanist goal!!!Hockey Playa said:im saying i dont want a relationship, with any of my plates, but i dont want to keep losing the free piece, but eventually they all want relationships
:crackup::crackup::crackup:Hahahah, I could imagine consulting a math-a-magician about "hors"Last Man Standing said:Some hos want to feel "special" in this case you must determine if your want of this hor in her entirety, is worth all the want of all the other hors combined!!! This is a mathematical equation and mathematicians should be consulted before you make a decision!!!