"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know you should be spinning, as many girls as possible, so you have backups, and so you dont fall into AFC mode, but how should you handle it, if one of your plates, wants to date, or shes gone??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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By 'spinning plates" I take it that you mean "hors"!!! Hors are the only ones that "spin"!!!!! :rolleyes:

Some hos want to feel "special" in this case you must determine if your want of this hor in her entirety, is worth all the want of all the other hors combined!!! This is a mathematical equation and mathematicians should be consulted before you make a decision!!!
 

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Hockey Playa said:
I know you should be spinning, as many girls as possible, so you have backups, and so you dont fall into AFC mode, but how should you handle it, if one of your plates, wants to date, or shes gone??
What has she done to prove to you that she is worth dating?
 

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im saying i dont want a relationship, with any of my plates, but i dont want to keep losing the free piece, but eventually they all want relationships
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hockey Playa said:
im saying i dont want a relationship, with any of my plates, but i dont want to keep losing the free piece, but eventually they all want relationships
this is anti-hor defens - "ralationships" have taken the place of marriage as a legitimate status to justify a woman's sexual conduct - this was the femanist goal!!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Some hos want to feel "special" in this case you must determine if your want of this hor in her entirety, is worth all the want of all the other hors combined!!! This is a mathematical equation and mathematicians should be consulted before you make a decision!!!
:crackup::crackup::crackup:Hahahah, I could imagine consulting a math-a-magician about "hors"
 
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