"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spinning not so hot plates?

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I have always had very high standards and since I'm not bad in the looks department and I have done quite well academically I've managed to get with a few high quality (average 8/9) girls as LTR's (what I'm personally looking for).

I get the feeling that the people on here would encourage me to go for a little more quantity over quality just for the spinning plate phase (possibly even to f-close just nothing serious) just to get up experience. Is this what you guys do?

An example is that I have a number from what I would not be interested in an LTR with and possibly not even sex, maybe a 6/7- above average but I'm just used to waiting it out for something higher - I take it you would suggests pursuing just to get practice up? So when the 9 comes along I'm not out of practice?

In which case - whats a good first text for the 6/7 i closed after not much comfort/attraction - not a very strong number I realise but I suppose I'll try (normally I just wouldn't bother).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LTR? Is she driving?

You'll probably get different answers from different DJ's on this one. My answer would be yes (although, I'd find closer girls). Spinning a couple 6's gives you experience (which there IS NO substitute for) and gives you a place you can test things to see how females react. You can gain some valuable info from a 6 and use it on a 9, assuming you know what you're doing.

I'm very much into quality--I may not even sleep with these 6's. But spinning a few dirty plates is still plate-spinning.
 

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Plus, in my limited understanding, you can use the attention that the dirty plates give you, when you meet that HB9 to both display scarcity and avoid oneitis, making you more attractive to the 9.
 

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It's all experience and learning which as alpha said there is no substitute for. Spin them plates!
 
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