"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spinning multiple plates...how do you guys do it??

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ok this is getting ridiculous.

every time I go out I'm getting at least 1 of my 4 plates texting/calling me about my plans and wanting to come out with me.

I have no freedom to sarge new girls, and it's getting increasingly difficult to keep my existing plates apart.

how do you guys do it??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like you need to prioritize which ones you want to keep, and which ones to drop to make room for new ones. There's only so much time in the day, unfortunately.
 
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zekko said:
Sounds like you need to prioritize which ones you want to keep, and which ones to drop to make room for new ones.
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THIS.
 
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dj_china said:
ok this is getting ridiculous.

every time I go out I'm getting at least 1 of my 4 plates texting/calling me about my plans and wanting to come out with me.

I have no freedom to sarge new girls, and it's getting increasingly difficult to keep my existing plates apart.

how do you guys do it??
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You need to be honest with them, if your lying your going to cause yourself all kinds of stress
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dj_china said:
ok this is getting ridiculous.

every time I go out I'm getting at least 1 of my 4 plates texting/calling me about my plans and wanting to come out with me.

I have no freedom to sarge new girls, and it's getting increasingly difficult to keep my existing plates apart.

how do you guys do it??
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Pimpin' ain't easy. If you really have "4" women, then you're at the far end of what the average man is able to handle. You might consider dropping it to 3. I found I couldn't handle 4 and had to do 3, though 4 is incredibly fun.

And it's best to have women in various areas. If they all live close to each other then you run the risk of them running into one another.

Keep in mind that you're bound to lose 1 anyway because all women love attention and at least one will find that she's not getting enough and will dump you.

Good luck, keep spinnin'! Multiple girlfriends is definitely the way to go. I've been doing it since 2004 and don't think that I could ever go back to just one woman in my life.

Oh, and there's no way to be completely truthful to 4 different women you're dating. Show them the respect to not parade the other women in front of their faces. The men who tell you to always be 100% honest with women are not the ones who are multi-dating ;)
 
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