"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spinning multiple plates...how do you guys do it??

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ok this is getting ridiculous.

every time I go out I'm getting at least 1 of my 4 plates texting/calling me about my plans and wanting to come out with me.

I have no freedom to sarge new girls, and it's getting increasingly difficult to keep my existing plates apart.

how do you guys do it??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sounds like you need to prioritize which ones you want to keep, and which ones to drop to make room for new ones. There's only so much time in the day, unfortunately.
 
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zekko said:
Sounds like you need to prioritize which ones you want to keep, and which ones to drop to make room for new ones.
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THIS.
 
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dj_china said:
ok this is getting ridiculous.

every time I go out I'm getting at least 1 of my 4 plates texting/calling me about my plans and wanting to come out with me.

I have no freedom to sarge new girls, and it's getting increasingly difficult to keep my existing plates apart.

how do you guys do it??
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You need to be honest with them, if your lying your going to cause yourself all kinds of stress
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dj_china said:
ok this is getting ridiculous.

every time I go out I'm getting at least 1 of my 4 plates texting/calling me about my plans and wanting to come out with me.

I have no freedom to sarge new girls, and it's getting increasingly difficult to keep my existing plates apart.

how do you guys do it??
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Pimpin' ain't easy. If you really have "4" women, then you're at the far end of what the average man is able to handle. You might consider dropping it to 3. I found I couldn't handle 4 and had to do 3, though 4 is incredibly fun.

And it's best to have women in various areas. If they all live close to each other then you run the risk of them running into one another.

Keep in mind that you're bound to lose 1 anyway because all women love attention and at least one will find that she's not getting enough and will dump you.

Good luck, keep spinnin'! Multiple girlfriends is definitely the way to go. I've been doing it since 2004 and don't think that I could ever go back to just one woman in my life.

Oh, and there's no way to be completely truthful to 4 different women you're dating. Show them the respect to not parade the other women in front of their faces. The men who tell you to always be 100% honest with women are not the ones who are multi-dating ;)
 
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