"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJnoob

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SUp guys, I noticed that conversations are soo much better when it comes to arguing with women... like disagreeing with them. It doesn't have to be always 100%. It gives you things to talk/debate about and the whole conversation flows natuarally and not as boring.

I've tried it on 2 women and so far, the conversations have been interesting and fun.

Watcha guys think
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Arsinel

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Well, you know what (woman's name)?!? If that's how you feel, let's have sex!
 

DJnoob

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Don't troll dude. Well of course when it comes to sex, you definitely won't disagree with that but what im trying to get across is that, if you just want more stuff to talk about instead of those lame @ss interview questions i think arguing,disagreeing come in handy sometimes
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm glad that you said that it comes in handy "sometimes." Too much of anything isn't a good thing.

The interesting thing is first you call it arguing then you call it debating. There's a difference between the two y'know.
 

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I find that women never have anything interesting to talk about. Then they just get bored.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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2c2bt said:
I find that women never have anything interesting to talk about. Then they just get bored.
Best bet is to stop hanging out with boring women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Arsinel said:
What? Doesn't changing who he hangs out with make more sense than making a blanket statement that's obviously an exageration? It's not as if he has no control over he hangs out with, right? I mean why would a guy choose to hang out with boring people anyway, he should know better; right? :whistle:
 

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Disagreeing with a girl does more than just allow for a nice debate, it also shows that you have a backbone, 'cause an AFC would just agree with every damn thing a girl says. Of course, this goes without saying, but if you find yourself disagreeing with a girl on a LOT of things, you'd be best to just keep her as a FB rather than a potential girlfriend.
 
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