"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJnoob

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SUp guys, I noticed that conversations are soo much better when it comes to arguing with women... like disagreeing with them. It doesn't have to be always 100%. It gives you things to talk/debate about and the whole conversation flows natuarally and not as boring.

I've tried it on 2 women and so far, the conversations have been interesting and fun.

Watcha guys think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Arsinel

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Well, you know what (woman's name)?!? If that's how you feel, let's have sex!
 

DJnoob

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Don't troll dude. Well of course when it comes to sex, you definitely won't disagree with that but what im trying to get across is that, if you just want more stuff to talk about instead of those lame @ss interview questions i think arguing,disagreeing come in handy sometimes
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm glad that you said that it comes in handy "sometimes." Too much of anything isn't a good thing.

The interesting thing is first you call it arguing then you call it debating. There's a difference between the two y'know.
 

2c2bt

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I find that women never have anything interesting to talk about. Then they just get bored.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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2c2bt said:
I find that women never have anything interesting to talk about. Then they just get bored.
Best bet is to stop hanging out with boring women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Arsinel said:
What? Doesn't changing who he hangs out with make more sense than making a blanket statement that's obviously an exageration? It's not as if he has no control over he hangs out with, right? I mean why would a guy choose to hang out with boring people anyway, he should know better; right? :whistle:
 

Sean O

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Disagreeing with a girl does more than just allow for a nice debate, it also shows that you have a backbone, 'cause an AFC would just agree with every damn thing a girl says. Of course, this goes without saying, but if you find yourself disagreeing with a girl on a LOT of things, you'd be best to just keep her as a FB rather than a potential girlfriend.
 
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