"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJnoob

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SUp guys, I noticed that conversations are soo much better when it comes to arguing with women... like disagreeing with them. It doesn't have to be always 100%. It gives you things to talk/debate about and the whole conversation flows natuarally and not as boring.

I've tried it on 2 women and so far, the conversations have been interesting and fun.

Watcha guys think
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, you know what (woman's name)?!? If that's how you feel, let's have sex!
 

DJnoob

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Don't troll dude. Well of course when it comes to sex, you definitely won't disagree with that but what im trying to get across is that, if you just want more stuff to talk about instead of those lame @ss interview questions i think arguing,disagreeing come in handy sometimes
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm glad that you said that it comes in handy "sometimes." Too much of anything isn't a good thing.

The interesting thing is first you call it arguing then you call it debating. There's a difference between the two y'know.
 

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I find that women never have anything interesting to talk about. Then they just get bored.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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2c2bt said:
I find that women never have anything interesting to talk about. Then they just get bored.
Best bet is to stop hanging out with boring women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Arsinel said:
What? Doesn't changing who he hangs out with make more sense than making a blanket statement that's obviously an exageration? It's not as if he has no control over he hangs out with, right? I mean why would a guy choose to hang out with boring people anyway, he should know better; right? :whistle:
 

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Disagreeing with a girl does more than just allow for a nice debate, it also shows that you have a backbone, 'cause an AFC would just agree with every damn thing a girl says. Of course, this goes without saying, but if you find yourself disagreeing with a girl on a LOT of things, you'd be best to just keep her as a FB rather than a potential girlfriend.
 
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