"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Spent 5 Nights Out In The Wilderness

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I've spent the last 5 days out in a pine forest wilderness, camping. It's one of the best things I've done this year. I highly recommend you guys to take time out to do this. I'd like to say I had an ephiphany out there, but I can't describe it in words right now, I just had alot of time to think about the fortunate things I have, rather than the exterior. Funnily enough, I had girls I hadn't spoke to for a while ring me all of a sudden.

I turned my phone off, watched no tv, had 2 meals a day, water, made campfires, made food on a grill, pheasant shooting, roe & red dear hunting, mounting biking, swimming in the lake and bike trekking. All in all, I just weren't thinking about women, not even a little bit. I didn't even masturbate for the 5 nights. I was soaking up the fresh air out there, I actually felt revived. Its so refreshing. This is one of the best activities you can do to take not just women, but any hardships in your life, put at a halt. Even if its for a week.

I've just logged on here, and was laughing my ass off at the threads, especially Crissco taking some text's seriously from a chick and claiming to be ''Dissed''. Also heard about the North & South Korean crisis happening, aswell as more job cuts. I'm beginning to feel miserable again, just by looking at the sheer idiotic threads and logging onto my Facebook to see the cvcksh*t. Hopefully, I can stay in this mode for another few weeks, untill I'm back here ranting. Infact, I'm going to refrain from posting a thread if it isn't a LR or some other meaningful gain regarding women on Sosuave.

The 5 nights felt like 4 weeks. I learnt alot out there, I can also say, from the female companionship that I had, is that I had a problem with why I weren't getting girls with my looks, I figured I was goodlooking, bit of an arsehole and have an average social circle, but couldn't get the girl. I was told, girls don't care about looks, not so much even if you're bold and confident, yes, I said it, but, the EXPERIENCE, they percieve they're GOING to have with you. Women can peak through your world by the way you present yourself, talk, mannerisms, people skills, humour and so on. They can tell if you're a desired male.


Definetely recommend you guys to take time out to do this. :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Mad Ghost said:
I'd like to say I had an ephiphany out there, but I can't describe it in words right now, I just had alot of time to think about the fortunate things I have, rather than the exterior.


Funny you mentioned this.

A couple days ago I went to get my pension insurance done. Outside the building there was a bunch of pensioners, arguing about who's next in line. It was total crap, people standing in line for government money. Greed was there, all over. But then I looked up into the trees, and saw them sway in the sky. It was so peaceful.

We down here are corrupted by the devil, which herds us through government and religion. The god is above, it's nature.

If I had it my way I'd move out of city and live in the woods.

Heh, makes you wonder why the Unabomber did his thing with airline companies. Flying there, ruining peace.
 

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Attempted to do this last summer....had scheduled 3 days....only lasted two....was bored out of my mind.
-Had loud campers all the way around (height of season)
-it rained, my sleeping setup in the tent was **** so i couldn’t sleep
-mosquitos ate me alive
-trees all the way around; no scenery
-i hate bugs, and forest was full of them
-the toilet stunk

I'll definitely try again next year....except, i won't go to a campground. I’m thinking of taking more days off and go as far north as i can in a full day driving (northern Ontario) and camping out on some hill somewhere away from everybody and everything.
 
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I’m thinking of taking more days off and go as far north as i can in a full day driving (northern Ontario) and camping out on some hill somewhere away from everybody and everything.

Take some Sasquatch repellent with you.
 

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This is a great thread. Every time I check back on this forum, theres tons of new, meaningless posts. I used to look on this forum the most before, even then people were saying how bad it had become. I don't know if it is me having improved beyond this, or if this part of the forum is just becoming worse?

Sometimes you just want to move out in the wild. Away from civilization, bull****, preservatives and social conditioning. We weren't made for this, that's why there is so much bad going on in the world. We are destroying it, it's almost unevitable. I'm definately gonna try this when I get older, maybe take it as far as moving out without money and live of the land?

Great post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Mad Ghost said:
I've spent the last 5 days out in a pine forest wilderness, camping. It's one of the best things I've done this year. I highly recommend you guys to take time out to do this. I'd like to say I had an ephiphany out there, but I can't describe it in words right now, I just had alot of time to think about the fortunate things I have, rather than the exterior. Funnily enough, I had girls I hadn't spoke to for a while ring me all of a sudden.

I turned my phone off, watched no tv, had 2 meals a day, water, made campfires, made food on a grill, pheasant shooting, roe & red dear hunting, mounting biking, swimming in the lake and bike trekking. All in all, I just weren't thinking about women, not even a little bit. I didn't even masturbate for the 5 nights. I was soaking up the fresh air out there, I actually felt revived. Its so refreshing. This is one of the best activities you can do to take not just women, but any hardships in your life, put at a halt. Even if its for a week.

I've just logged on here, and was laughing my ass off at the threads, especially Crissco taking some text's seriously from a chick and claiming to be ''Dissed''. Also heard about the North & South Korean crisis happening, aswell as more job cuts. I'm beginning to feel miserable again, just by looking at the sheer idiotic threads and logging onto my Facebook to see the cvcksh*t. Hopefully, I can stay in this mode for another few weeks, untill I'm back here ranting. Infact, I'm going to refrain from posting a thread if it isn't a LR or some other meaningful gain regarding women on Sosuave.

The 5 nights felt like 4 weeks. I learnt alot out there, I can also say, from the female companionship that I had, is that I had a problem with why I weren't getting girls with my looks, I figured I was goodlooking, bit of an arsehole and have an average social circle, but couldn't get the girl. I was told, girls don't care about looks, not so much even if you're bold and confident, yes, I said it, but, the EXPERIENCE, they percieve they're GOING to have with you. Women can peak through your world by the way you present yourself, talk, mannerisms, people skills, humour and so on. They can tell if you're a desired male.


Definetely recommend you guys to take time out to do this. :up:

:up:
 

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If you haven't watched it already, I'd recommend the film "Into The Wild".

It's a true story about a lad who decides to leave society and goes to live in the Alaskan wilderness on his own.
It's actually my favourite film. Definitely worth a watch!
 

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Neon Owl said:
If you haven't watched it already, I'd recommend the film "Into The Wild".

It's a true story about a lad who decides to leave society and goes to live in the Alaskan wilderness on his own.
It's actually my favourite film. Definitely worth a watch!
Yeah it was, I cried at the end of it.
 

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Neon Owl said:
If you haven't watched it already, I'd recommend the film "Into The Wild".

It's a true story about a lad who decides to leave society and goes to live in the Alaskan wilderness on his own.
It's actually my favourite film. Definitely worth a watch!
Yeah, I'm currently reading the book. I find it difficult to read tho. Gonna see the movie later.
 

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I've recently bought the book also, haven't got round to reading it yet though.

What do you mean by difficult to read?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mad Ghost, I was thinking of doing that, too. I don't know if you're in North America, but around here (NY) we're having real issue of bears coming around campsites. When I was a boy scout we never even considered the possibility of a bear. I just spoke to a ranger a couple of weeks ago at my local campground and he said that had 2 bears come in this year.

Did you take any precautions against bears, assuming you're in a place that has them? Going camping really has been on my mind lately, but all the bear stories have been causing me to procrastinate.
 

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Neon Owl said:
I've recently bought the book also, haven't got round to reading it yet though.

What do you mean by difficult to read?
First thing has got to be the fact that english is my 2nd language. Other than that, the author has a different writing style, it is a mix between the actual story and facts, and it's A LOT of names. Good story though.
 

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IMO, the best times to camp are, in order:

Fall
Spring
Winter
Summer

How can summer be last, you say? Well, another poster alluded to it before. The summer is the height of insect activity and humidity. You get eaten alive by mosquitoes and it's miserable as hell.

Fall is the best time to hit the woods. Bugs and humidity are gone, plenty of stuff to burn, nights are cool but not cold, big harvest moons and clear skies you can see the end of the universe.

If you want to rough it, camp in the winter. That will put some hair on yer chest.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Did you take any precautions against bears, assuming you're in a place that has them? Going camping really has been on my mind lately, but all the bear stories have been causing me to procrastinate.
We sighted two small North American black bears walk past our campsite (yards away) but apart from that, no harm or consistant problematic bears our way. I'm sure the Mama Bear was probably near by, which was unnerving. If anything, it was those damned Mosquitos and Black-backed Shew's that took the last bit of energy in me. But overall, for general safety, given, you aren't hunting, just camping, would be to take a light rifle, preferably light-lever action rifles chambered with classic cartridges like the .30-30, .300 Sav., .348Win. and/or .358 Win or an Semi-auto 12 gauge-Shotgun.

People have problems with bears, when they feed them, your food. Stop feeding them and you won't encounter much problems. We also cooked and ate our food away from the campsite, nor were scraps left around the campfire area.

I can't even sleep properly in my own bed now. I became accustomed to the wilderness, even though it was rough, but I liked it. It was a change of scenery and recreation. Especially, seeing the harvest moon, and being able to actually see some stars, without the big bright light pollution from the city, is a beautiful sight. Its like the scene with Sergeant Mac keeping watch on the tree in the 1980's Predator Movie, you rarely get to see such scenery in the city outskirts.
 

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I've done lots of outdoor living. Summer, spring, fall, winter, I've done it all (thank you army). I agree that the fall is the best. Summer can suck depending on where you live. Winter is ok if you know how to prepare (I've spent 2 weeks straight in the field in Jan one year, temps were between -20 and -40).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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