"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spending money on girls - bottles in clubs

TheGambino

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Ok I feel like buying a bottle in a expensive club this saturday night and take out my number 1 plate. I feel like sitting smoking a cigar sippin booze and kissing and dancing all night.

You guys say it's bad to spend more money then needed on girls when youre just started to date her. It's the second date though and we didnt kiss close, you can check my last post to see how the first date went. I kino'ed and the rest ofcourse.

Anyway goin to send her a text if she feels like going to a club and have some fun this weekend.

I just enjoy myself spending money dressing well and having some fun I dont see how it can f8ck up your value to women doing stuff like this. Ofcourse I should escalate in exchange.

Feel free to share your thoughts
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skyline

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I'm not so sure about the club idea. The first time you went with her it was with another couple but this time it's mono on mono. A club is a type of place where friends and single people meet, and since you've already showed your value to her, why would you expose her to a scenario that reeks with guys trying to pick her up?

She already saw your "wild side" at that club so why show her again? Why not mix it up and show her a more calm/romantic side?

Oh, if you can afford it then spend it.
 
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You are throwing your money away if you're happy with that then you're good.

It can work but it's far from ideal. As said above, you should be taking her somewhere quiet where you can get closer to her without the thousand distractions, e.g. a local bar where you can drink a round then go back to yours. At yours you can have a bottle of nice wine ready or whatever (you get a good possibility of sex plus you don't spend ten times as much). It's simple enough.
 
TheGambino

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ye thats true.

anyway only thing that i dont like is: she took our mutual friend home and i asked him the next day what she said bout the night he replied with: 'o lol she came in to use the bathroom but i forgot to invite her for drinks'

uhhmm, i feel disrespected even though he lives in a city nearby and was drunk as f8ck she offered to drive him home.

thats the only thing thats keeping me from contacting her again
 
Rainman4707

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Yeah Gambino, go for it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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