Spending money on girls - bottles in clubs

[TheGambino]

Ok I feel like buying a bottle in a expensive club this saturday night and take out my number 1 plate. I feel like sitting smoking a cigar sippin booze and kissing and dancing all night.

You guys say it's bad to spend more money then needed on girls when youre just started to date her. It's the second date though and we didnt kiss close, you can check my last post to see how the first date went. I kino'ed and the rest ofcourse.

Anyway goin to send her a text if she feels like going to a club and have some fun this weekend.

I just enjoy myself spending money dressing well and having some fun I dont see how it can f8ck up your value to women doing stuff like this. Ofcourse I should escalate in exchange.

Feel free to share your thoughts

 

[Skyline]

I'm not so sure about the club idea. The first time you went with her it was with another couple but this time it's mono on mono. A club is a type of place where friends and single people meet, and since you've already showed your value to her, why would you expose her to a scenario that reeks with guys trying to pick her up?

She already saw your "wild side" at that club so why show her again? Why not mix it up and show her a more calm/romantic side?

Oh, if you can afford it then spend it.

 

[LMFAO]

You are throwing your money away if you're happy with that then you're good.

It can work but it's far from ideal. As said above, you should be taking her somewhere quiet where you can get closer to her without the thousand distractions, e.g. a local bar where you can drink a round then go back to yours. At yours you can have a bottle of nice wine ready or whatever (you get a good possibility of sex plus you don't spend ten times as much). It's simple enough.

 

[TheGambino]

ye thats true.

anyway only thing that i dont like is: she took our mutual friend home and i asked him the next day what she said bout the night he replied with: 'o lol she came in to use the bathroom but i forgot to invite her for drinks'

uhhmm, i feel disrespected even though he lives in a city nearby and was drunk as f8ck she offered to drive him home.

thats the only thing thats keeping me from contacting her again

 

[Rainman4707]

Yeah Gambino, go for it!