arodinpinstripes
Don Juan
I just got a ticket for going 60 in a 30. I can pay the money but I don't want my dad to find out, If i Pay with my checking account he will find out and.... does it appear on insurance?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I went 101 in a 60 and ended up with a ticket for $350 and 4 points. The insurence would have been up to the roof. Instead i paid a lawyer $1200 and he nagotiated it down to $60 speeding ticket (no points). I don't think insurence even knows about it yat.flippinfreak said:I went 140 and rolled a truck over in a 40 zone. I got a fine for driving over the speed limit but nothing went on record.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Go to court.arodinpinstripes said:OK I told my Dad, He wants me 2 pay it all n all that crap but How do I lower the payment
Its 40km/h for school zone here. And yeah, in suburban areas its 50km/h and it goes to 80km/h on the "highways" (outskirts of town and on connectiong roads).flippinfreak said:In canada a school zone is 30kmph... less than 20mph(School zone?)
30mph is nearly 50kmph thats like the top speed limit of the entire town I live in.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your insurance will go up, no matter what state you live in, unless you are eligible for traffic court, in which case it won't appear on your record, and your insurance premium won't go up.not only does it appear on insurence but your insurence might go up (depending on the law around your state...)