"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SpeedDating!?

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Ok - here I am busy trying to pick up chicks cold following David D's advice, I'm having trouble spotting women here in NYC, so many out there, but not getting too many to approach, then I come across this Speeddating thing, I wonder if it's worth a try...I live in NYC, so I thought it couldn't be all bad...plus I got money to waste :)

Anyways, my quesion:

Does ****y/funny work in speeddating? What's the right attitude anyway, because playing the AFC is suicide with so much competition. I have to be different, but how?

I thought at worst, it's good practice, I've been out of game for a while, I'm not looking for any serious relationship or anything, just looking to have some fun as the summer approaches...

thanks,
kairos
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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also, please give me some ****y/funny i can use...
thanks, kairos
 
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i don't really believe you should devote time to looking for women. usually, if you just go out and do other things that you enjoy, you'll eventually come across some good ones.
 
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