"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SpeedDating!?

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Ok - here I am busy trying to pick up chicks cold following David D's advice, I'm having trouble spotting women here in NYC, so many out there, but not getting too many to approach, then I come across this Speeddating thing, I wonder if it's worth a try...I live in NYC, so I thought it couldn't be all bad...plus I got money to waste :)

Anyways, my quesion:

Does ****y/funny work in speeddating? What's the right attitude anyway, because playing the AFC is suicide with so much competition. I have to be different, but how?

I thought at worst, it's good practice, I've been out of game for a while, I'm not looking for any serious relationship or anything, just looking to have some fun as the summer approaches...

thanks,
kairos
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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also, please give me some ****y/funny i can use...
thanks, kairos
 
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i don't really believe you should devote time to looking for women. usually, if you just go out and do other things that you enjoy, you'll eventually come across some good ones.
 
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