"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Speed Seduction on Millionaire Matchmaker

Zarky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2010
Messages
3,213
Reaction score
89
Location
SoCal
So I love watching Millionaire Matchmaker to see what NOT to do with women. But in the second season's episode 10 (S02E10), about 32 minutes in, I spotted the first time I've ever seen (and heard) a Speed Seduction weasel phrase & embedded command used on TV.

"Zagros," one of the "millionaires," and some chick are in a helicopter on their first date. He busts out some classic speed seduction, with the pauses and everything:

"You know that feeling you get... when you first.. start to feel.. absolutely connected.. to the person you're with."

They immediately start making out in the 'copter and they go on to screw before they're "supposed" to. Interestingly, from her recounting of the incident, after they were done she tried to make it ok by hitting him up for money ("Do you like spoiling women?"). The show attracts gold diggers for sure, but the central commandment of a true gold digger is: don't give up the p*ssy until AFTER you've gotten at least some gold. So I think he entranced her, she put out, and then the trance broke because he basically used her as a pump and dump, she realized this suddenly and tried to make it feel like she was at least going to get something monetarily for it. He, of course, refused ("I like it when women spoil me.")

Check out her recounting of the incident in the 38th minute.

I don't really want to get into a discussion about the show in this thread, but I thought it was interesting to see Speed Seduction and NLP used in "real life."

I used to study speed seduction and made quite good use of it a loooong time ago (first tried it when I was 19). But it's somewhat difficult because you can't really relax into the conversation.. you always need to be "on" to come up with lines like the above.

Anybody else see any NLP or speed seduction used anywhere.. TV or otherwise? I'd be extremely surprised if so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

In10se

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2012
Messages
154
Reaction score
0
99% of "reality TV" is completely scripted...this show is blatantly fake and warrants 0 analyzation
 
Top