"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Speed Seduction 101
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I was starting to really dislike the C&F method because it was making me feel like a tool - when I'm actually a ridiculously witty and creative guy. But this is perfect. It consists of things I've naturally been doing all my life. More than that, it gives me control of the situation but doesn't make me feel like a total prick everytime I work with it.
The only thing that bothers me is that I feel like any girl with above average intelligence would be able to see what you're doing. That's kind of why I stopped doing it - I started to feel like it was transparent.
Either way, this post made my month. I can't wait to rekindle these wonderfully gentle methods.
~Sloopy
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
peace
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.