phenomenom
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what are some fun questions to ask during speed dating?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Speed dating
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How many guys do you have on the side?
Do you have any STD's?
How do you feel about marriage?
Do you have a father?
Why do you wear so much make up?
Do you fuvk on the first date?
haha
Come on man. Just ask her about her life, pretend you're interested. Get a couple drinks, catch HPV, maybe herpes, take a shower, repeat.
Do you have any STD's?
How do you feel about marriage?
Do you have a father?
Why do you wear so much make up?
Do you fuvk on the first date?
haha
Come on man. Just ask her about her life, pretend you're interested. Get a couple drinks, catch HPV, maybe herpes, take a shower, repeat.
Huffman
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"When you have sex, and you're on top, do you wear your hair open or as a ponytail?" Okay, kind of crude, but I had a girl ask me actually, I had long hair back then 
I've been to speed dating once, and from what I could tell most girls there weren't sluts at all, but just normal girls curious about that thing. Curious, and very wary of you trying to pick them up! They're more interested in having 20 guys try to impress them in a row so they feel good
I don't think you can "pick up" a girl in 3mins (if she's not a slut hehe). So don't try to "be fun", but rather have fun. Don't ask the same questions after the 3rd time, because everyone does.
ANYWAY, ask some witty stuff, and if you can't think of witty, think something crazy, anything really. Your real chance is AFTER the speed dating, if it's at some pub or cafe then people stay and you can start your game. +you have social validation from pretty much everyone in the room, so perfect conditions!
I've been to speed dating once, and from what I could tell most girls there weren't sluts at all, but just normal girls curious about that thing. Curious, and very wary of you trying to pick them up! They're more interested in having 20 guys try to impress them in a row so they feel good
I don't think you can "pick up" a girl in 3mins (if she's not a slut hehe). So don't try to "be fun", but rather have fun. Don't ask the same questions after the 3rd time, because everyone does.
ANYWAY, ask some witty stuff, and if you can't think of witty, think something crazy, anything really. Your real chance is AFTER the speed dating, if it's at some pub or cafe then people stay and you can start your game. +you have social validation from pretty much everyone in the room, so perfect conditions!