phenomenom
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what are some fun questions to ask during speed dating?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Speed dating
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How many guys do you have on the side?
Do you have any STD's?
How do you feel about marriage?
Do you have a father?
Why do you wear so much make up?
Do you fuvk on the first date?
haha
Come on man. Just ask her about her life, pretend you're interested. Get a couple drinks, catch HPV, maybe herpes, take a shower, repeat.
Do you have any STD's?
How do you feel about marriage?
Do you have a father?
Why do you wear so much make up?
Do you fuvk on the first date?
haha
Come on man. Just ask her about her life, pretend you're interested. Get a couple drinks, catch HPV, maybe herpes, take a shower, repeat.
Huffman
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"When you have sex, and you're on top, do you wear your hair open or as a ponytail?" Okay, kind of crude, but I had a girl ask me actually, I had long hair back then 
I've been to speed dating once, and from what I could tell most girls there weren't sluts at all, but just normal girls curious about that thing. Curious, and very wary of you trying to pick them up! They're more interested in having 20 guys try to impress them in a row so they feel good
I don't think you can "pick up" a girl in 3mins (if she's not a slut hehe). So don't try to "be fun", but rather have fun. Don't ask the same questions after the 3rd time, because everyone does.
ANYWAY, ask some witty stuff, and if you can't think of witty, think something crazy, anything really. Your real chance is AFTER the speed dating, if it's at some pub or cafe then people stay and you can start your game. +you have social validation from pretty much everyone in the room, so perfect conditions!
I've been to speed dating once, and from what I could tell most girls there weren't sluts at all, but just normal girls curious about that thing. Curious, and very wary of you trying to pick them up! They're more interested in having 20 guys try to impress them in a row so they feel good
I don't think you can "pick up" a girl in 3mins (if she's not a slut hehe). So don't try to "be fun", but rather have fun. Don't ask the same questions after the 3rd time, because everyone does.
ANYWAY, ask some witty stuff, and if you can't think of witty, think something crazy, anything really. Your real chance is AFTER the speed dating, if it's at some pub or cafe then people stay and you can start your game. +you have social validation from pretty much everyone in the room, so perfect conditions!