phenomenom
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what are some fun questions to ask during speed dating?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Speed dating
- Thread starter phenomenom
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How many guys do you have on the side?
Do you have any STD's?
How do you feel about marriage?
Do you have a father?
Why do you wear so much make up?
Do you fuvk on the first date?
haha
Come on man. Just ask her about her life, pretend you're interested. Get a couple drinks, catch HPV, maybe herpes, take a shower, repeat.
Do you have any STD's?
How do you feel about marriage?
Do you have a father?
Why do you wear so much make up?
Do you fuvk on the first date?
haha
Come on man. Just ask her about her life, pretend you're interested. Get a couple drinks, catch HPV, maybe herpes, take a shower, repeat.
Huffman
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"When you have sex, and you're on top, do you wear your hair open or as a ponytail?" Okay, kind of crude, but I had a girl ask me actually, I had long hair back then 
I've been to speed dating once, and from what I could tell most girls there weren't sluts at all, but just normal girls curious about that thing. Curious, and very wary of you trying to pick them up! They're more interested in having 20 guys try to impress them in a row so they feel good
I don't think you can "pick up" a girl in 3mins (if she's not a slut hehe). So don't try to "be fun", but rather have fun. Don't ask the same questions after the 3rd time, because everyone does.
ANYWAY, ask some witty stuff, and if you can't think of witty, think something crazy, anything really. Your real chance is AFTER the speed dating, if it's at some pub or cafe then people stay and you can start your game. +you have social validation from pretty much everyone in the room, so perfect conditions!
I've been to speed dating once, and from what I could tell most girls there weren't sluts at all, but just normal girls curious about that thing. Curious, and very wary of you trying to pick them up! They're more interested in having 20 guys try to impress them in a row so they feel good
I don't think you can "pick up" a girl in 3mins (if she's not a slut hehe). So don't try to "be fun", but rather have fun. Don't ask the same questions after the 3rd time, because everyone does.
ANYWAY, ask some witty stuff, and if you can't think of witty, think something crazy, anything really. Your real chance is AFTER the speed dating, if it's at some pub or cafe then people stay and you can start your game. +you have social validation from pretty much everyone in the room, so perfect conditions!