"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gonna do my first speed date tomorrow night guys. Let me know if you have any tips. It will be mingling and we're going to do that 3 minutes rotation thing as well. There will be 20 males and 20 females.

Since this isn't serious at all, I've decided to adopted multiple personalities and try them out on each individual girl.

If you have any tips/openers/ETC you would like tested in the field, this is your BIG CHANCE. Post it here and I'll report back in a week with a typed up report about my various successes and failures with your material.

I'll pretty much try out anything, except on girls I'm interested in.

Please don't post dumb sh1t like, "nice shoes, wanna fvck?" I won't do that. This is supposed to be a fairly classy event.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hmm I always wanted to try that because it looks fun!! lol. What I would do is stay calm and continue to be a DJ througout the night, I mean your going to be sitting infront of a girl and in 30min your just going to move like 7inches to the left so everything you said earlier will be in plain earsight! Maybe try to have some fun instead of asking question after question, maybe shake it up a bit ask crazy things like what "Disney" princess would she be or ask her to dance saying that if she cant dance she cant be with you! Good luck and post your results!
 
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Hey, there is nothing wrong with speed dating. Some choice girls end up going in support of their less then choice friends. Not to mention some great girls end up there any way. Another thing, you can do or say anything you want and chances are you'd never see them again. So where is the downside to this?
 
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No downside. This is for a dance marathon event on campus to raise money. It's for charity at the very least.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alright T-Roy thanks for the tip.

I'll try it out. There's actually a segment where we mingle and dance so I'll use that opener. I suck at dancing anyways, so it's win-win either way.
 
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oops sorry, just looks a little afc to me, I will just wait till all the festivities are over on the sidelines till the girls I saw par-taking walk by and ask if they are done playing games and ready for the real mcCoy. the desperate are playing and the content are watching.
 
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Ahha. Cool. That falls right into your lap eh?
 
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