Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Speed Dating

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Gonna do my first speed date tomorrow night guys. Let me know if you have any tips. It will be mingling and we're going to do that 3 minutes rotation thing as well. There will be 20 males and 20 females.

Since this isn't serious at all, I've decided to adopted multiple personalities and try them out on each individual girl.

If you have any tips/openers/ETC you would like tested in the field, this is your BIG CHANCE. Post it here and I'll report back in a week with a typed up report about my various successes and failures with your material.

I'll pretty much try out anything, except on girls I'm interested in.

Please don't post dumb sh1t like, "nice shoes, wanna fvck?" I won't do that. This is supposed to be a fairly classy event.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hmm I always wanted to try that because it looks fun!! lol. What I would do is stay calm and continue to be a DJ througout the night, I mean your going to be sitting infront of a girl and in 30min your just going to move like 7inches to the left so everything you said earlier will be in plain earsight! Maybe try to have some fun instead of asking question after question, maybe shake it up a bit ask crazy things like what "Disney" princess would she be or ask her to dance saying that if she cant dance she cant be with you! Good luck and post your results!
 

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Hey, there is nothing wrong with speed dating. Some choice girls end up going in support of their less then choice friends. Not to mention some great girls end up there any way. Another thing, you can do or say anything you want and chances are you'd never see them again. So where is the downside to this?
 

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No downside. This is for a dance marathon event on campus to raise money. It's for charity at the very least.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright T-Roy thanks for the tip.

I'll try it out. There's actually a segment where we mingle and dance so I'll use that opener. I suck at dancing anyways, so it's win-win either way.
 

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oops sorry, just looks a little afc to me, I will just wait till all the festivities are over on the sidelines till the girls I saw par-taking walk by and ask if they are done playing games and ready for the real mcCoy. the desperate are playing and the content are watching.
 

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Ahha. Cool. That falls right into your lap eh?
 
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