"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Speed Dating

Potbelly

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Gonna do my first speed date tomorrow night guys. Let me know if you have any tips. It will be mingling and we're going to do that 3 minutes rotation thing as well. There will be 20 males and 20 females.

Since this isn't serious at all, I've decided to adopted multiple personalities and try them out on each individual girl.

If you have any tips/openers/ETC you would like tested in the field, this is your BIG CHANCE. Post it here and I'll report back in a week with a typed up report about my various successes and failures with your material.

I'll pretty much try out anything, except on girls I'm interested in.

Please don't post dumb sh1t like, "nice shoes, wanna fvck?" I won't do that. This is supposed to be a fairly classy event.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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j0n024

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Hmm I always wanted to try that because it looks fun!! lol. What I would do is stay calm and continue to be a DJ througout the night, I mean your going to be sitting infront of a girl and in 30min your just going to move like 7inches to the left so everything you said earlier will be in plain earsight! Maybe try to have some fun instead of asking question after question, maybe shake it up a bit ask crazy things like what "Disney" princess would she be or ask her to dance saying that if she cant dance she cant be with you! Good luck and post your results!
 

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Hey, there is nothing wrong with speed dating. Some choice girls end up going in support of their less then choice friends. Not to mention some great girls end up there any way. Another thing, you can do or say anything you want and chances are you'd never see them again. So where is the downside to this?
 

Potbelly

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No downside. This is for a dance marathon event on campus to raise money. It's for charity at the very least.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Potbelly

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Alright T-Roy thanks for the tip.

I'll try it out. There's actually a segment where we mingle and dance so I'll use that opener. I suck at dancing anyways, so it's win-win either way.
 

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oops sorry, just looks a little afc to me, I will just wait till all the festivities are over on the sidelines till the girls I saw par-taking walk by and ask if they are done playing games and ready for the real mcCoy. the desperate are playing and the content are watching.
 

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Ahha. Cool. That falls right into your lap eh?
 
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