Speechless

[we all eat food]

This is a problem, such as this one girl who i like i will be talking to her and the conversation gets stale really quickly and we dont have anything to say to each other, and this other girl who i dont like at all just a as an aquaintence i can talk with no problem and keep a convo going. Do you think this just because the first girl is nervous around me or not comfortbale around me, cause i try using C+F but the first girl doesnt really give me much of chance since its me doing all the talking.

Any comments?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

fart to break the silence

 

[we all eat food]

im being serious jackass

 

[GuitarOnFire]

It could be nervousness or that she just doesn't have good conversation skills. If the conversation hangs, as it sometimes does, just end it on a positive note and go on your way.

Nothing is worse than having two people just standing there not saying anything.

 

[jackie_legs]

Well what I think what you should do is do the nouning thing. like lets say you asked her how her weekend was? and shes like it was alright I went to the beach. so what you do is find the noun in her sentences, the person, place or thing and ask her a question. example she said she went to the beach so say so how was the beach? she will answer then comment saying something like the beach is cool to bad I only go there once a month. see where im getting? do the noun thing and you wont go wrong. also if you guys are in a place make a comment on something wherever your at. Try asking her what kind of music and stuff she likes. I do this and dAMN the conversations lasts forever. so keep nouning and good luck.

 

[Muphaser]

Leave before the convo get stale, or say something randomly plucked out of thin air...

Either keep the convo rolling or exit

 

[i am me]

fart to break the silence

HAHAHAH

 

[dannowillbookem]

look around. unless youre sitting in a blank white room (so uh we're all alone...) you have to see something that you can comment on. if its something about her, ask a question about it...it'll get things rolling.

one of my favorite lines...if i already have rapport/attraction with the girl...is when things get silent i'll say "you know, every time theres an akward silence, a gay baby is born. lets try to avoid these, if just for the children." usually gets a laugh and they actively try to avoid silences like its some kinda game.

 

[Muphaser]

"you know, every time theres an akward silence, a gay baby is born. lets try to avoid these, if just for the children."

Haha! Thats a good 1 bro, im borrowing that, you dont mid right?

 

[dannowillbookem]

Haha! Thats a good 1 bro, im borrowing that, you dont mid right?

not unless we happen to be in a car together when an akward silence occurs.

 

[Muphaser]

not sure we could fit in a car together with our combined macking, bro

Or we could say we were identical twins, and got adopted and had sugery to change the way we look and...

I think I jus wont use it in the same car as you, dude

 

[Distant Light]

your too serious when talking to hot girls. A girl you don't like you don't care if you mess up thats how you should be when talking to hot girls. An your also scared on saying the wrong thing. There are so many things to talk about but at that moment you can't find 1 possible thing? YOu need more time in the field.

 

[S1NN3R]

Any comments?

Talk to girls who aren't so dull.

 

[dannowillbookem]

not sure we could fit in a car together with our combined macking, bro

Or we could say we were identical twins, and got adopted and had sugery to change the way we look and...

I think I jus wont use it in the same car as you, dude

good thinking