"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Speech for class on how to tell if a girl likes you

mhs09

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Tomorrow i have to do a speech on a how to with 5 steps. I decided to do my how to on How to tell if a girl likes you can you guys tell me some of the steps. The only steps i could really think of is the one where a girls eyes dilate and if she will give you her real phone number what other steps should i talk about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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john paul

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you want my honest opinion?
i wouldnt do a speach on that. I could see high school guys calling you gay and coming off possibly as creepy to girls. But thats just my thought on it as a fellow high schooler. Keep those tells girls give off to yourself.

Do the 5 steps to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
 

Shaik

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LOL, I want a PB&J!~

I have to agree with john paul. You're playing the game, you're competing with lots of other guys...idk if you want to give away your techniques so easily, especially to girls. There's just an underlying risk here. Then again, I know you should help out your fellow DJs, but in this case...random strangers? Not a good idea.
 

mhs09

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yea you guys are right i guess i didnt really think this thru ill just do the PB&J.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gangster Of Love

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Montebello, California?

Do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Enryu

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i would say dont do it ;)
1. You would make a laugh out of you
2. Girls will know how you would approach them
3. The Guys will use your techniques (its something different on a forum when you are talking with ppl you will never meet etc. while you tell it your friends because you want them to be happy etc.)
 
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