"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Speech for class on how to tell if a girl likes you

mhs09

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Tomorrow i have to do a speech on a how to with 5 steps. I decided to do my how to on How to tell if a girl likes you can you guys tell me some of the steps. The only steps i could really think of is the one where a girls eyes dilate and if she will give you her real phone number what other steps should i talk about?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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john paul

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you want my honest opinion?
i wouldnt do a speach on that. I could see high school guys calling you gay and coming off possibly as creepy to girls. But thats just my thought on it as a fellow high schooler. Keep those tells girls give off to yourself.

Do the 5 steps to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
 

Shaik

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LOL, I want a PB&J!~

I have to agree with john paul. You're playing the game, you're competing with lots of other guys...idk if you want to give away your techniques so easily, especially to girls. There's just an underlying risk here. Then again, I know you should help out your fellow DJs, but in this case...random strangers? Not a good idea.
 

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yea you guys are right i guess i didnt really think this thru ill just do the PB&J.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gangster Of Love

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Montebello, California?

Do it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i would say dont do it ;)
1. You would make a laugh out of you
2. Girls will know how you would approach them
3. The Guys will use your techniques (its something different on a forum when you are talking with ppl you will never meet etc. while you tell it your friends because you want them to be happy etc.)
 
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