"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys, I lurk on this forum sometimes and I just registered to ask this question. I've been in a LTR for a few years and just got out. Haven't gone on any dates.

I'm taking a super short night class and there is a giirl in it who sometimes seems interested in me, sometimes I'm not sure. She seems to have stress issues from her job.

The only thing that really makes me feel awkard is she is way younger than me, and she knows this because she asked me my age first time I talked to her.

Other than that I'm ready to ask her out and get rejected if thats how it has to be. But I keep debating the best way to do it, timing, etc.

I think I should do it in person, but asking her after class seems like it would be rushed and I can't always talk to her alone. So I can always just call her and do it. What do you guys think?

And is asking her to dinner a bad idea? I've been trying to think of something creative but no luck. I already know her well enough where coffee seems too informal.

Unfortunately my social life is pretty dead. I'm working on improving it, but at the moment I don't have anything exciting going on to invite her to, and I want to just get this over with now.

Thanks for any advice!
 

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your situation is not as "specific' as you think. these are the steps you need to follow.... ready......

1. stop analyzing what and how you will do this

2. dont ASSUME you will get rejected (if you think you will, you will)

3. stop wasting time and just go ask her to do something ..ANYTHING.

(dinner, coffee, help shopping, etc)

next time you see her use the 3 second rule. give yourself no more than 3 seconds to close this deal. this eliminates your worst enemy... you thinking to much
 
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