gixxer
Don Juan
OK, I have a specific question on my current girl/girl situation. As you may know from my last post, my current FB (23, myspace) wants to have her first bi experience with me and another girl. She's very shy and submissive, but is a freak once she warms up and is led properly.
Here's the question: I'm driving this thing at her request and have been contacting bi/lesbian girls online that I think we'd find attractive. I'm contacting them AS HER because she's too shy and passive to do it without a lot of encouragement from me. I'm concerned that me corresponding with them AS HER will create an incongruency when we/they meet and blow it and yet I'm not sure Steph (my primary) has the "horsepower" to follow through and drive an online meeting to a real life meeting, etc.
The only solution I can think of is that we should sit down together and do the corresponding but that creates the problem of how fast we can escalate since we don't see each other every day.
gixx
Here's the question: I'm driving this thing at her request and have been contacting bi/lesbian girls online that I think we'd find attractive. I'm contacting them AS HER because she's too shy and passive to do it without a lot of encouragement from me. I'm concerned that me corresponding with them AS HER will create an incongruency when we/they meet and blow it and yet I'm not sure Steph (my primary) has the "horsepower" to follow through and drive an online meeting to a real life meeting, etc.
The only solution I can think of is that we should sit down together and do the corresponding but that creates the problem of how fast we can escalate since we don't see each other every day.
gixx
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