"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay, I'm used to using ****y and funny routines with great confidence etc. the usual stuff basically.

But there's this one girl who I kind of know (i've spoken to her a couple of times), and although she has never mentioned it in person, it says all over here bebo page she hates ****y guys, and I mean ALL OVER. But my wholle style is based on ****iness and confidence, so how should I approach this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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(JJ)

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what girls say and what they do are almost always different. in other words, she doesn't know what she wants. its up to you to show her :up:
 

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Women's minds are like runny yolks...you are like the hard egg shell that's supposed to contain them.

Note that the shell is what gives the yolk the shape, not vice-versa.

Now stop letting her dictate your frame, puzzy-boy!
 

JDA70

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Go with confidence and drop the ****iness.

Try a little tease to please.
What is that you might ask?

Sit down and think about.
How can you tease her with out being
this ****y jerk.

it says all over here bebo page
Got a link?
 

DonJuan11

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unrelated1 said:
it says all over here bebo page she hates ****y guys, and I mean ALL OVER. But my wholle style is based on ****iness and confidence, so how should I approach this?
What is a bebo page?

And I hate pretty young girls with tight bodies. I mean hate!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Sperminator

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Confidence and ****y are two totally different things. It's like in girls guys like confident girls but not stuck up full of themselve *****es. Be confident but don't act like your **** don't stink.
 
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