"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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unrelated1

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Okay, I'm used to using ****y and funny routines with great confidence etc. the usual stuff basically.

But there's this one girl who I kind of know (i've spoken to her a couple of times), and although she has never mentioned it in person, it says all over here bebo page she hates ****y guys, and I mean ALL OVER. But my wholle style is based on ****iness and confidence, so how should I approach this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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(JJ)

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what girls say and what they do are almost always different. in other words, she doesn't know what she wants. its up to you to show her :up:
 

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Women's minds are like runny yolks...you are like the hard egg shell that's supposed to contain them.

Note that the shell is what gives the yolk the shape, not vice-versa.

Now stop letting her dictate your frame, puzzy-boy!
 

JDA70

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Go with confidence and drop the ****iness.

Try a little tease to please.
What is that you might ask?

Sit down and think about.
How can you tease her with out being
this ****y jerk.

it says all over here bebo page
Got a link?
 

DonJuan11

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unrelated1 said:
it says all over here bebo page she hates ****y guys, and I mean ALL OVER. But my wholle style is based on ****iness and confidence, so how should I approach this?
What is a bebo page?

And I hate pretty young girls with tight bodies. I mean hate!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Sperminator

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Confidence and ****y are two totally different things. It's like in girls guys like confident girls but not stuck up full of themselve *****es. Be confident but don't act like your **** don't stink.
 
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