I haven't posted seriously in a while, but here's my most recent situation. I would appreciate some help/advice/feedback.
A little background on where I live: middle of nowhere. One hour away from any real big town or anything. I live in a tourist town that has died down considerably. I have fvcked two girls during the tourist season after moving here at the beginning of September.
The story:
I'm out on a run a couple of weeks ago and see this good looking girl (HB9.5, no lie). I say, forget not approaching, I am going to talk to her.
We each finish our run at the same time and I can see her kind of looking in my direction (I had my shirt off and stuff) and I asked her what time it was. Easy enough opener, it led to conversation, I made her laugh. I didn't put her on a pedestal, etc.
I amazed her when I guessed she used to play shooting guard for the local basketball team. I later told her I am a sports writer and she said she is 22 and she is going to grad school at a college an hour and half away two days a week and the like.
So I number close and all is good. I call her in two days, no answer. A day later, she sends me a text saying "Sorry I didn't get back to you. I have been really busy with school."
I text her back saying "why don't you come out and make it up to me by having a drink." She said she would love to but needs to finish work.
The next weekend I text her and say that offer is still on the table, and she says that she is going to Massachusetts to see her boyfriend. This was the first reference to him during all of our conversations.
Fast forward to today where I go on another run. I see her out there but I keep along my way, snap a little smile her way, and go on. I finish my run and see her getting in her car, but knowing that she saw me, I knew she was going to come back and talk to me.
I stretched for a bit, and sure enough she gets out of her car and walks toward me. She says something and I take out my IPod and we have a conversation. She asks how is everything going with writing and all and we have a good little conversation.
Turns out her boyfriend is the starting goal of an AHL team in Massachusetts, so I figure DHV is going to be awfully hard. She is a gorgeous girl and I wouldn't mind to steal her away, but that would be tough. There aren't many good looking girls here and this is an opportunity. I can either have her lead me to her friends who are good looking or try to go after her.
What do the DJs say I do here? Should I try to DHV some way even though her b/f is a starting goalie? Should I tell her to introduce me to some of her friends around the area? What say ye?
Edit: My town and his town are 5 hours apart from each other.
A little background on where I live: middle of nowhere. One hour away from any real big town or anything. I live in a tourist town that has died down considerably. I have fvcked two girls during the tourist season after moving here at the beginning of September.
The story:
I'm out on a run a couple of weeks ago and see this good looking girl (HB9.5, no lie). I say, forget not approaching, I am going to talk to her.
We each finish our run at the same time and I can see her kind of looking in my direction (I had my shirt off and stuff) and I asked her what time it was. Easy enough opener, it led to conversation, I made her laugh. I didn't put her on a pedestal, etc.
I amazed her when I guessed she used to play shooting guard for the local basketball team. I later told her I am a sports writer and she said she is 22 and she is going to grad school at a college an hour and half away two days a week and the like.
So I number close and all is good. I call her in two days, no answer. A day later, she sends me a text saying "Sorry I didn't get back to you. I have been really busy with school."
I text her back saying "why don't you come out and make it up to me by having a drink." She said she would love to but needs to finish work.
The next weekend I text her and say that offer is still on the table, and she says that she is going to Massachusetts to see her boyfriend. This was the first reference to him during all of our conversations.
Fast forward to today where I go on another run. I see her out there but I keep along my way, snap a little smile her way, and go on. I finish my run and see her getting in her car, but knowing that she saw me, I knew she was going to come back and talk to me.
I stretched for a bit, and sure enough she gets out of her car and walks toward me. She says something and I take out my IPod and we have a conversation. She asks how is everything going with writing and all and we have a good little conversation.
Turns out her boyfriend is the starting goal of an AHL team in Massachusetts, so I figure DHV is going to be awfully hard. She is a gorgeous girl and I wouldn't mind to steal her away, but that would be tough. There aren't many good looking girls here and this is an opportunity. I can either have her lead me to her friends who are good looking or try to go after her.
What do the DJs say I do here? Should I try to DHV some way even though her b/f is a starting goalie? Should I tell her to introduce me to some of her friends around the area? What say ye?
Edit: My town and his town are 5 hours apart from each other.
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