Special considerations for calling/setting up a date with/dating a stripper?

[squirrels]

I never expected this!

"Hold on...hold on OK? <in background> ok...ok...i'll talk to you later, ok bye....mom, leave me alone for a minute...OK...ohmygod, hold on...OK...I've called out of work every single night since I met you...I hate my job, I think I'm gonna quit...what are you doing tonight?...cuz me and my friend are going to xxxxx...oh you have to work tomorrow...blah blah blah...OK I'll call you to make sure you're gonna be there...yeah...it doesn't matter if I call you or you call me, we'll talk...ok bye"

I am a f--king GOD!!

This went pretty much to the opposite end of the spectrum from what I expected. She sounded jumpy as hell the whole time...I don't remember her being that way in the club. She lives like an hour from me, so I suggested a place close to her, but she practically insisted on us meeting halfway, so I picked a similar place in a different location...it's one of those restaurant/arcade type places. Should make a decent action date...plus if things go wrong I can vent by playing one of those zombie-robot-machine-gun-shootemup games all night.

I can't help but wonder if this girl is a friggin psycho. Have I woken a monster?

Even more important, should I buy some condoms?

 

[ShortyBrown]

Re: Re: Re: Special considerations for calling/setting up a date with/dating a stripper?

Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
Treat no different than any other woman? Are you kidding me? A stripper, a lawyer, a med school student, a rocket scientist, an import model...you're telling the guy that he should treat any of these women the same?? BLAH!!!

They aren't the same. Period. Women are different, with different life experiences and different expectations of their men. ShortyBrown, are you really telling me that you could treat EVERY SINGLE guy you've dated the same? Come on now.

I was a night club Disc Jockey and have friends who are dancers/escorts. It's a different woman all together. In a strip club, the life is fast paced. Lots of drugs, alchohol, wild times. These girls get hit on by wealthy men all the time. They're used to the attention and are always on a pedistal. However, strippers RARELY give their number out at work.

If the number she gave you isn't fake, than you have something special that raised her IL enough to give you the number.

I'd follow violator's advice on this one:
These types of emotionally damaged girls ( strippers, porn actresses, etc.) respond effectively to C+F and an occasional neg-hit. Anything to distinguish yourself from typical AFC behavior. In other words, act like a jerk but with a softer lining.

To your other question, are you more likely to catch something sexuallly? Unfortunately, yes. With the life of drugs, alchohol, raves, parties, wild-one night stand-sex happens a lot with these girls.

I'm sure there are exceptions to the rule for strippers who only do it to get through college or whatever...but, for the majority, I'd go with violator's advice on this.

I mean in the sense that there is a strong social stigma attached to being a sex worker. Don't let the fact that she strips get in the way of having fun, thats all.