"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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special case, friendzone yet interested, every tip is welcome

TheGambino

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guys, i know this girl for 9 years, she was in my class.
ive never showed much interest. she sometimes contacted me tho and we were like friends coz both of us never tried anything only talking on text messages and in clubs if we met.

tho i dated her once a year ago we went to a club but nothin happened i didnt escelate or so we only went out and thats it.

yet she always kept texting me and we went to the gym for a time together but that made us more friends tho i feel we could be more then friends if i escelated.

the last months we didnt have much contact till we met at the station and she asked me to grab a drink sometime i was uninterested and replied very late on messages and ignored her a bit. Met her in the supermarket a week ago and she was over me asking me when to get a drink. I talked to her flirted a little bit aknow me like that.nd told her ill hit her up sometime. She keeps texting me and today for the first time i thought lets make something out of it so i set up a date for this saturday, she accepted immediatley and replies on my texts within seconds.

The problem: I know her for years and we are more friends know, yet i feel shes attracted to me the way she talks to me and all the attention she gives me.

Any tips on how I could get out of that friendzone immediatley and escelate coz I never tried something with her in a sexual way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have been in similar situations before.

It normally comes from girls who are lower than me on the looks scale, not always, but yes, generally this is the case.

You have answered your own question. The only way to get out of this friendzone IS to escalate. Be sexual with her, use some kino, and just go for it, give her a kiss!

Why do you want to do this though? You said you were uninterested in her for pretty much 9 years, why the sudden change of heart?
 
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just keep this in mind during your interactions with her: none of her other prospects are panning out, so she's willing to give you another shot. you should isolate her on the date by bringing her over immediately to your place for 'drinks', but don't jump on her the first chance you get. since you've been playing it cool this whole time, make her work for it a little bit
 
TheGambino

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coz Id like to give it a shot with her I might change my mind about her after the date
 
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