special case, friendzone yet interested, every tip is welcome

[TheGambino]

guys, i know this girl for 9 years, she was in my class.
ive never showed much interest. she sometimes contacted me tho and we were like friends coz both of us never tried anything only talking on text messages and in clubs if we met.

tho i dated her once a year ago we went to a club but nothin happened i didnt escelate or so we only went out and thats it.

yet she always kept texting me and we went to the gym for a time together but that made us more friends tho i feel we could be more then friends if i escelated.

the last months we didnt have much contact till we met at the station and she asked me to grab a drink sometime i was uninterested and replied very late on messages and ignored her a bit. Met her in the supermarket a week ago and she was over me asking me when to get a drink. I talked to her flirted a little bit aknow me like that.nd told her ill hit her up sometime. She keeps texting me and today for the first time i thought lets make something out of it so i set up a date for this saturday, she accepted immediatley and replies on my texts within seconds.

The problem: I know her for years and we are more friends know, yet i feel shes attracted to me the way she talks to me and all the attention she gives me.

Any tips on how I could get out of that friendzone immediatley and escelate coz I never tried something with her in a sexual way.

 

[Dance]

I have been in similar situations before.

It normally comes from girls who are lower than me on the looks scale, not always, but yes, generally this is the case.

You have answered your own question. The only way to get out of this friendzone IS to escalate. Be sexual with her, use some kino, and just go for it, give her a kiss!

Why do you want to do this though? You said you were uninterested in her for pretty much 9 years, why the sudden change of heart?

 

[Lord Hypnos]

just keep this in mind during your interactions with her: none of her other prospects are panning out, so she's willing to give you another shot. you should isolate her on the date by bringing her over immediately to your place for 'drinks', but don't jump on her the first chance you get. since you've been playing it cool this whole time, make her work for it a little bit

 

[TheGambino]

coz Id like to give it a shot with her I might change my mind about her after the date