"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speaking of working out

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How about this for an opener of a lady who obviously made eye contact more than 3 times.

Like walk up to her and say , hey, we locked eyes so i came...too bold?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only opener you will ever need:

Hey.

When she locked eyes on you, she already knew if she would entertain an approach by you. So, it's no point trying to find a good opener.

Instead always have good posture and a confident walk.
 

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I usually do the sup head nod, but i was just brainstorming new ways. Obviously i dont care what she does as long as she smiles back .
 

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i think it would be better and funnier to walk over to her with a grin and say " I saw you looking at me so i came over to say hi."
 
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