"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Proud of you man! you've come so far since the first few posts you made - (how do I get my stuff back/NC challenge).

Keep it up, Keep being THE man!:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Purefilth said:
Proud of you man! you've come so far since the first few posts you made - (how do I get my stuff back/NC challenge).

Keep it up, Keep being THE man!:up:
thank you, very much its been a long road, but i making it...still a work in progress. I appreciate all your support.
its been a rollercoaster
 

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CostaDeSol said:
HAHAHA

She sounds like a totally annoying brat. You handled it well.
Ya she is 26 a super immature I made some good jokes in my speach had people cracking up. My friends judt told she was laughing insanely...imay have got her hsmstrr eheel spinning more then I thought!
 
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Ya she is 26 a super immature I made some good jokes in my speach had people cracking up. My friends judt told she was laughing insanely...imay have got her hsmstrr eheel spinning more then I thought!
I can see you trying to get back with her. You'll start having rumpy, pumpy sexual intercourse with her and then you'll sink further into the abyss.
 

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j0504s said:
Ya she is 26 a super immature I made some good jokes in my speach had people cracking up. My friends judt told she was laughing insanely...imay have got her hsmstrr eheel spinning more then I thought!

You should have told the crowd if they felt just as nervous as you with public speaking they should just picture you naked and they'd all feel relaxed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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perseverance said:
I can see you trying to get back with her. You'll start having rumpy, pumpy sexual intercourse with her and then you'll sink further into the abyss.
Lets hope this is not the case. Everyday apart from her I remember another one of her sick demented games...I just want the last laugh as all our ego usually do. Which I kind of already have considering her current guy is a literally the opitme of tool beta I will whorship u till the day I die

Again thank you all for the kind and encouraging support that I have recieved in every thread I have made here. It means a lot to me.
 

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cordoncordon said:
Great job keep it up.
Thank u ur the man btw

I just saw her at another meeting. That she only went to with me so random and she was ****ing sitting in my seat. Everyone know its my seat to even her......Just ignored her the entire time she was starring at me a lot. Thisgirl is insane. I dont get it...wtf
 

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JohnChops said:
good stuff op, i love it when people stick it to their b1tch exes. You executed that perfectly.
Haha thanks playa read my last post shes ****ing rediculous invading my space man my territory WTF lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're in a very powerful position now OP. Don't buckle, keep being money and soon you'll be knee deep in hot, grateful pvssy.
Know this: if she feels she could get you back, she'll lose all respect for you again. Don't give her the satisfaction, keep that hamster spinning!
 

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Greasy Pig said:
You're in a very powerful position now OP. Don't buckle, keep being money and soon you'll be knee deep in hot, grateful pvssy.
Know this: if she feels she could get you back, she'll lose all respect for you again. Don't give her the satisfaction, keep that hamster spinning!
Thank you and I wont just I mind **** myself sometimes.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
You're in a very powerful position now OP. Don't buckle, keep being money and soon you'll be knee deep in hot, grateful pvssy.
Know this: if she feels she could get you back, she'll lose all respect for you again. Don't give her the satisfaction, keep that hamster spinning!
Can someone help break down her current mindset for me?
 

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She's looking for you to break down and "accept" her again in order that she might be validated. Once that happens, she will drop you like a rock. WHatever you do, stay strong and don't look for reconnection or "closure". She is utterly confounded as to why she doesn't have you in the palm of her hand. That's her only concern. It's not about you nor the relationship. It's about attention and having the upper hand. The second she gets you back into her palm she'll open that palm and dump you on the floor.
 

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The best way to fvck a girl over you've lost but still have a soft spot for is to act confident, unaffected and over her - especially if she has some personality disorder. It will fvck her ego up good and proper. You did exactly that at your speech event. Superb job ignoring her eyes during speech and reaction to the hug thing - hug and carry on like it meant nothing. You will have gotten into her head about that.

The thing to remember is she wants you worshipping at her alter again, it makes her feel good. Women like to have fall back plans, when starting something new, so she wants you to be that in case her new relationship goes t1ts up. She's used to you being doting, so when you aren't, she'll switch to her devious b1tch mode and try anything to get you validating how wonderful she is again. I bet you good money she'll be texting you again soon, showing interest again - like a Siren in mythology, singing sweetly to you, trying to get you to sail into the rocks to your death. Don't fall for it, be polite but emotionless to her, but DON'T GET STUNG BY HER!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I am reading it with the greatest interest as it'll happen to me shortly in a different context. Do you think that her behaviour it's only for validation and ego boosting or it might be some change of mind of the girl? How can you spot this?
 

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Atom and skallope thank you makes more sense now. So you think this is bothering her a lot?
 

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I am reading it with the greatest interest as it'll happen to me shortly in a different context. Do you think that her behaviour it's only for validation and ego boosting or it might be some change of mind of the girl? How can you spot this?
Plus good question as well curious to this answer
 

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Skalioppe said:
The best way to fvck a girl over you've lost but still have a soft spot for is to act confident, unaffected and over her - especially if she has some personality disorder. It will fvck her ego up good and proper. You did exactly that at your speech event. Superb job ignoring her eyes during speech and reaction to the hug thing - hug and carry on like it meant nothing. You will have gotten into her head about that.

The thing to remember is she wants you worshipping at her alter again, it makes her feel good. Women like to have fall back plans, when starting something new, so she wants you to be that in case her new relationship goes t1ts up. She's used to you being doting, so when you aren't, she'll switch to her devious b1tch mode and try anything to get you validating how wonderful she is again. I bet you good money she'll be texting you again soon, showing interest again - like a Siren in mythology, singing sweetly to you, trying to get you to sail into the rocks to your death. Don't fall for it, be polite but emotionless to her, but DON'T GET STUNG BY HER!

So funny fact...two of my friends have told me in the past week...they have seen her on both occasions she had tryed waving and to them and approaching them to say hello...which they both completly ignored...on both occasions she was with her knew guy I was told and they didnt touch at all in public to there eyes as well as her not looking perticurally happy...I assume the reason they told me this is because for the year we dated she literally COULD NOT KEEP HER HANDS OFF ME. My friends would get sickined by it. IDK if this has to do with her hamster spinning or low interest in her knew dude...but I thought I'd share this cause I found it quite amusing...I would think she would be more all over him infront of friends to try and get me to be jelous on the chance they may tell me...any insight or break down on this?
 

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So funny fact...two of my friends have told me in the past week...they have seen her on both occasions she had tryed waving and to them and approaching them to say hello...which they both completly ignored...on both occasions she was with her knew guy I was told and they didnt touch at all in public to there eyes as well as her not looking perticurally happy...I assume the reason they told me this is because for the year we dated she literally COULD NOT KEEP HER HANDS OFF ME. My friends would get sickined by it. IDK if this has to do with her hamster spinning or low interest in her knew dude...but I thought I'd share this cause I found it quite amusing...I would think she would be more all over him infront of friends to try and get me to be jelous on the chance they may tell me...any insight or break down on this?
Why do you need a break down? it's time to explore new frontier


why are you letting this b!tch take up space in your head when she's not paying rent

move on stop thinking about her
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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