Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Proud of you man! you've come so far since the first few posts you made - (how do I get my stuff back/NC challenge).
Keep it up, Keep being THE man!
Keep it up, Keep being THE man!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thank you, very much its been a long road, but i making it...still a work in progress. I appreciate all your support.Purefilth said:Proud of you man! you've come so far since the first few posts you made - (how do I get my stuff back/NC challenge).
Keep it up, Keep being THE man!![]()
Ya she is 26 a super immature I made some good jokes in my speach had people cracking up. My friends judt told she was laughing insanely...imay have got her hsmstrr eheel spinning more then I thought!CostaDeSol said:HAHAHA
She sounds like a totally annoying brat. You handled it well.
I can see you trying to get back with her. You'll start having rumpy, pumpy sexual intercourse with her and then you'll sink further into the abyss.j0504s said:Ya she is 26 a super immature I made some good jokes in my speach had people cracking up. My friends judt told she was laughing insanely...imay have got her hsmstrr eheel spinning more then I thought!
j0504s said:Ya she is 26 a super immature I made some good jokes in my speach had people cracking up. My friends judt told she was laughing insanely...imay have got her hsmstrr eheel spinning more then I thought!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lets hope this is not the case. Everyday apart from her I remember another one of her sick demented games...I just want the last laugh as all our ego usually do. Which I kind of already have considering her current guy is a literally the opitme of tool beta I will whorship u till the day I dieperseverance said:I can see you trying to get back with her. You'll start having rumpy, pumpy sexual intercourse with her and then you'll sink further into the abyss.
Thank u ur the man btwcordoncordon said:Great job keep it up.
Haha thanks playa read my last post shes ****ing rediculous invading my space man my territory WTF lolJohnChops said:good stuff op, i love it when people stick it to their b1tch exes. You executed that perfectly.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thank you and I wont just I mind **** myself sometimes.Greasy Pig said:You're in a very powerful position now OP. Don't buckle, keep being money and soon you'll be knee deep in hot, grateful pvssy.
Know this: if she feels she could get you back, she'll lose all respect for you again. Don't give her the satisfaction, keep that hamster spinning!
Can someone help break down her current mindset for me?Greasy Pig said:You're in a very powerful position now OP. Don't buckle, keep being money and soon you'll be knee deep in hot, grateful pvssy.
Know this: if she feels she could get you back, she'll lose all respect for you again. Don't give her the satisfaction, keep that hamster spinning!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Plus good question as well curious to this answerjoker79 said:I am reading it with the greatest interest as it'll happen to me shortly in a different context. Do you think that her behaviour it's only for validation and ego boosting or it might be some change of mind of the girl? How can you spot this?
Skalioppe said:The best way to fvck a girl over you've lost but still have a soft spot for is to act confident, unaffected and over her - especially if she has some personality disorder. It will fvck her ego up good and proper. You did exactly that at your speech event. Superb job ignoring her eyes during speech and reaction to the hug thing - hug and carry on like it meant nothing. You will have gotten into her head about that.
The thing to remember is she wants you worshipping at her alter again, it makes her feel good. Women like to have fall back plans, when starting something new, so she wants you to be that in case her new relationship goes t1ts up. She's used to you being doting, so when you aren't, she'll switch to her devious b1tch mode and try anything to get you validating how wonderful she is again. I bet you good money she'll be texting you again soon, showing interest again - like a Siren in mythology, singing sweetly to you, trying to get you to sail into the rocks to your death. Don't fall for it, be polite but emotionless to her, but DON'T GET STUNG BY HER!
Why do you need a break down? it's time to explore new frontierj0504s said:So funny fact...two of my friends have told me in the past week...they have seen her on both occasions she had tryed waving and to them and approaching them to say hello...which they both completly ignored...on both occasions she was with her knew guy I was told and they didnt touch at all in public to there eyes as well as her not looking perticurally happy...I assume the reason they told me this is because for the year we dated she literally COULD NOT KEEP HER HANDS OFF ME. My friends would get sickined by it. IDK if this has to do with her hamster spinning or low interest in her knew dude...but I thought I'd share this cause I found it quite amusing...I would think she would be more all over him infront of friends to try and get me to be jelous on the chance they may tell me...any insight or break down on this?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.