Speak the language... (BODY)

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So its basic, i believe its evident what body language is. I mean, I dont know exactly all of these languages and everything, but the basic ones.

Fixing herself, smile and facing you are some of the basic yet biggest signs if she is really interested in you, right?

So speak it! How?

Make it known! You can't be going around waiting for IOI's (Indications of Interest) all night or all the time, right?

Here's something better to do.

Dress real nice. I had custom tailored suits, black pants, and custom long sleeved shirts, bought my first rolex maybe 3 months ago or so, gel ur hair up or shave ur head bald whichever looks better.

Just look neat and presentable. And then... Speak the languange.

Pop your collar, fix yourself, face her, let it be known you are attracted to her. If she reacts with the same, faces you smiles or fixes herself or any other positive body language which includes pro longed eye contact, then make the move. Walk to her in an evading manner (diagonally) and speak with her.

IMO it doesnt really matter that much what u say from there. Just dont say something offensive or stupid.

Say something in the lines of "Hi! Whats your name? Mine's Michael" Shake her hand, Dance or whatever. Speak. Get number. Bail after rapport.

Just thought I'd share, its really sky rocketted my chances of cold approaching. Thanks for reading.

 

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Yeah but dude - you just posted in General about how your Follow up game was crap and how girls were uncomfortable around you. Either your BS'ing or your not sarging the girls for LONG enough before you close them. If your gonna do a quick number close, you have to have MAD phone game for after the approach - otherwise your just gonna get another flake.

Sarge On...

Hi Shezz. Since back then ive been a good reader of ur posts. Anyway, if u reread my post there, I said I used to have an OK game and could close HB8s

In any case, I'm really new to COLD approaching at clubs. And u are right... I need mad phone game. I hardly even speak with them. All I do is introduce myself, etc etc.. maybe ask where she works/studies.. thats about it before I # close.

Do you have any suggestions on what to talk about? I mean its really loud in there.

And yea, what would be a good thing to talk about. I really suck at building rapport.

However I am pretty goodlooking + nice car and money, i have all the equipment basically, I just dong know how to use them.

 

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^ Thanks man shezz. U got PM dude. Verbalizing lower value must work. It's like down playing. Yeah, I got gold diggers on my ass all the time.

 

[MightyMate]

I dont care for body language or eye contct. If i like chick i just come.

 

[chronic99uk]

I dont agree. Self confidence, is not bought.

I could go and get some tidy clothes from any cheap shop. why would i want to cover myself in things that are trying to make me feel better about what i look like.

Dress real nice. I had custom tailored suits, black pants, and custom long sleeved shirts, bought my first rolex maybe 3 months ago or so, gel ur hair up or shave ur head bald whichever looks better.

Did you do this cause you like the expensive life, and are well off.
Better advice would be just to feel comfortable in your skin, and tidy and presentable.
You dont need rolex's and tailored suits costing thousands of dollars.
Plus id say it really depends where your going to look for what you want, this wont work everywhere.