"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sparking Girls' Interest!

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I've been to a few parties, and I've been outside sarging. However, my BIGGEST question has been gnawing my brain for months. With the answer to my question, I can finally become a true DJ.

How does one spark a girl's sexual interest me within a limited amount of time? I approach a girl, and I can talk. I've lost the fear in "the approach." I can talk, but it's hard to establish an interest.

Perhaps my conversation skills are weak. Perhaps not. What is my problem? How can I "open" up a chick? I'm a good looking guy. I dress well. How do I get to the point when I can lay my arm around a girl I just met and pin her against the wall as I kiss her? How do I get her to want me?

I was at a party a few nights ago. I was quite drunk. I noticed this guy just lean in to kiss a chick when the girl asked him to move inside - she wanted to dance, I think. So, what the fvck? How can I get to do that?

This is an answer we are all seeking. Can someone give me the tools necessary to crack this code - or perhaps, the answer itself. I want to be the guy who gets the girl he notices at the party. I'm tired of being the guy who looks at the chick, knowing that he won't get any from her. I want to go up to her with a confident smile, say the right things, and have her think how much she just wants to kiss me.

Advice/Help please.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When you meet a girl, its looks that counts. Thats where her interest comes from. Now, this doesnt mean genetic looks. Do you think shes really making a connection with you with all that loud music and the fact that she really just wants the attention?

You sound like you just moved to NYC. YOu have to tell me what part of NYC youre talking about. Ive lived in qns, bx, bk, and that type of **** doesnt go down at parties. What the hell are you expecting to happen with a girl you just met? Think about it for a second, its a dark room, youre a stranger, why would she want to kiss you? Maybe shell wanna give you her # after you talk to her a little. But here thats also a little hard.

If youre with that Upper East Side/Upper West Side manhattan crowd thats a whole different story. I dont know what goes down in those preppy type crowd parties.

But you sound like you dont know how to talk to women. Theres no magic formula anyone can give you so you can be a player. You have to find your own mack. That takes time like 2 - 5 years.
 
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Talk -> subtle kino -> not-so subtle kino -> sexual kino -> kiss
 
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Maybe go after chicks that are already drunk? They always want a shoulder to lean on. Just don't let her puke on your shirt.
Seriously, a little alcohol can help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You could also befriend some of the guys that know 'how to crack the code' and learn from them.
 
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JHeights83rd said:
When you meet a girl, its looks that counts. Thats where her interest comes from. Now, this doesnt mean genetic looks. Do you think shes really making a connection with you with all that loud music and the fact that she really just wants the attention?

You sound like you just moved to NYC. YOu have to tell me what part of NYC youre talking about. Ive lived in qns, bx, bk, and that type of **** doesnt go down at parties. What the hell are you expecting to happen with a girl you just met? Think about it for a second, its a dark room, youre a stranger, why would she want to kiss you? Maybe shell wanna give you her # after you talk to her a little. But here thats also a little hard.

If youre with that Upper East Side/Upper West Side manhattan crowd thats a whole different story. I dont know what goes down in those preppy type crowd parties.

But you sound like you dont know how to talk to women. Theres no magic formula anyone can give you so you can be a player. You have to find your own mack. That takes time like 2 - 5 years.
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I hang out with the preppy type of people - Upper East Side, you guessed it!

I can easily talk to women, but I don't know if it leads to anything? Perhaps, I cover myself in doubt while I'm alone, but I preform better when in the situation calls for it. I'm not that successful, but I can hold my ground - I believe.

ThreeStorms said:
You could also befriend some of the guys that know 'how to crack the code' and learn from them.
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I'll try that.
 
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