"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sparking Girls' Interest!

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Fitch

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I've been to a few parties, and I've been outside sarging. However, my BIGGEST question has been gnawing my brain for months. With the answer to my question, I can finally become a true DJ.

How does one spark a girl's sexual interest me within a limited amount of time? I approach a girl, and I can talk. I've lost the fear in "the approach." I can talk, but it's hard to establish an interest.

Perhaps my conversation skills are weak. Perhaps not. What is my problem? How can I "open" up a chick? I'm a good looking guy. I dress well. How do I get to the point when I can lay my arm around a girl I just met and pin her against the wall as I kiss her? How do I get her to want me?

I was at a party a few nights ago. I was quite drunk. I noticed this guy just lean in to kiss a chick when the girl asked him to move inside - she wanted to dance, I think. So, what the fvck? How can I get to do that?

This is an answer we are all seeking. Can someone give me the tools necessary to crack this code - or perhaps, the answer itself. I want to be the guy who gets the girl he notices at the party. I'm tired of being the guy who looks at the chick, knowing that he won't get any from her. I want to go up to her with a confident smile, say the right things, and have her think how much she just wants to kiss me.

Advice/Help please.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you meet a girl, its looks that counts. Thats where her interest comes from. Now, this doesnt mean genetic looks. Do you think shes really making a connection with you with all that loud music and the fact that she really just wants the attention?

You sound like you just moved to NYC. YOu have to tell me what part of NYC youre talking about. Ive lived in qns, bx, bk, and that type of **** doesnt go down at parties. What the hell are you expecting to happen with a girl you just met? Think about it for a second, its a dark room, youre a stranger, why would she want to kiss you? Maybe shell wanna give you her # after you talk to her a little. But here thats also a little hard.

If youre with that Upper East Side/Upper West Side manhattan crowd thats a whole different story. I dont know what goes down in those preppy type crowd parties.

But you sound like you dont know how to talk to women. Theres no magic formula anyone can give you so you can be a player. You have to find your own mack. That takes time like 2 - 5 years.
 
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Talk -> subtle kino -> not-so subtle kino -> sexual kino -> kiss
 
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Maybe go after chicks that are already drunk? They always want a shoulder to lean on. Just don't let her puke on your shirt.
Seriously, a little alcohol can help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You could also befriend some of the guys that know 'how to crack the code' and learn from them.
 
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JHeights83rd said:
When you meet a girl, its looks that counts. Thats where her interest comes from. Now, this doesnt mean genetic looks. Do you think shes really making a connection with you with all that loud music and the fact that she really just wants the attention?

You sound like you just moved to NYC. YOu have to tell me what part of NYC youre talking about. Ive lived in qns, bx, bk, and that type of **** doesnt go down at parties. What the hell are you expecting to happen with a girl you just met? Think about it for a second, its a dark room, youre a stranger, why would she want to kiss you? Maybe shell wanna give you her # after you talk to her a little. But here thats also a little hard.

If youre with that Upper East Side/Upper West Side manhattan crowd thats a whole different story. I dont know what goes down in those preppy type crowd parties.

But you sound like you dont know how to talk to women. Theres no magic formula anyone can give you so you can be a player. You have to find your own mack. That takes time like 2 - 5 years.
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I hang out with the preppy type of people - Upper East Side, you guessed it!

I can easily talk to women, but I don't know if it leads to anything? Perhaps, I cover myself in doubt while I'm alone, but I preform better when in the situation calls for it. I'm not that successful, but I can hold my ground - I believe.

ThreeStorms said:
You could also befriend some of the guys that know 'how to crack the code' and learn from them.
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I'll try that.
 
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