Sparking Attraction

[Holland]

Well, I notice I have the most difficulty with sparking the attraction in a girl. Once I get it going it just flows naturally and it's easy amplifieing.
But I really have to improve in sparking the attraction cause as most of us know. If you don't spark it early, chances are slim you're going to spark it later and then you'll go straight into hell (which sucks btw). I know about the whole body language thing and have no problems with it and I'm not nervous. I just need some good ways to SPARK. Any ideas?

 

[Drewgie]

Being ****y and funny is the ultimate tool for attraction. It shows her that you're a fun guy but that you're also confident. Being busy and frequently unavailable helps too. Shows her you have a life and that your world keeps turning with or without her.

 

[tmpgstx]

The attraction is either there or not, right from the beginning in one way or another (or several ways). You just have not do something that turns her off.

 

[Jaymz_R]

Well for starters, heres a few tips for attraction, you say you know body language but it looks like u don't know it as well as u say you do

1/ for starters let her do most if not all of the talkn
2/ tilt head slightly while listening, only like 10 degrees
3/ have eyes fixated on her eyes, and slightly closed roughly 10%
- do not look away before she does, she will away then back at you then it would be ok to glance away for a few seconds, but keep eye contact high, roughly 75% to 90% of the time
4/ lots of hand movements, that reveal palms or open gestures
5/ touch her, kino,
6/ make her laugh, give her crap, tease her on little things, call her ugly
7/ cant think of anything its 5am, and i gotta go fishing with the gf and brother in half an hr


Jaymz_R

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
The attraction is either there or not, right from the beginning in one way or another (or several ways). You just have not do something that turns her off.

That's probably not what you want to hear, but it is the truth!

If you want to spark attraction in women, you have to become an attractive person.

 

[Holland]

Yeah yeah, I know. C&F are good for AMPLIFYING the attraction present.

Being busy and frequently unavailable helps too

I'm talking sparking attraction when you meet her somewhere/or are in her company.

you say you know body language but it looks like u don't know it as well as u say you do

I use this kind of Body Language:
-always leaned back
-slow movement when reaching for anything
-ALWAYS keep the eye contact the longest
-Chest up

What I lack sometimes is something that gets the ball rolling. Sometimes it happens, but sometimes it doesn't and I'd like to have some more control over that.

 

[tmpgstx]

There is nothing more powerful in terms of body language than looking into her eyes and smiling geniunely (not forced or scripted). If you really like her, it will come naturally. If she likes you, she'll recipocate.

It's more important to read her body language also. If she glances away alot and her eye contact is fleeting, then she has no attraction to you. Keep in mind, everyone has different body language also.

The kino stuff is childish and for playground type of stuff back in elementary school. Let her touch you first, before touching her at all.