Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Spanked a girl from work today - D'you think I'm screwed?

LuckyStrike

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Originally posted by Trorkin
I think I should straighten things out - I don't want her to fear me. Damned if I'll apologise outright, though. I spanked that ass, and I'm glad I did. It was the right thing to do, from a cosmic point of view.
Cosmic huh? That's an interesting way of looking at it. I think you should talk to her about it, get it out in the open. You can do that without apologizing...Just let her know that it's all good and she doesn't have to worry about it happening again because you respect her feelings or some sh-t like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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madgame

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Kid, please do not think that I am harsh okay, but I will give you the three steps that you must do in this situation...you ready....

1. NOT GIVE A FVCK.
2. NOT GIVE ANOTHER FVCK.
3. CONTINUE NOT GIVING A FVCK.
Shyt, this is actually the only reason why I still come here (other than for doing my BC journal). If you read some threads sooner or later u gonna have to laugh b/c of some funny bullsh...t
 
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