"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spanked a girl from work today - D'you think I'm screwed?

LuckyStrike

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Originally posted by Trorkin
I think I should straighten things out - I don't want her to fear me. Damned if I'll apologise outright, though. I spanked that ass, and I'm glad I did. It was the right thing to do, from a cosmic point of view.
Cosmic huh? That's an interesting way of looking at it. I think you should talk to her about it, get it out in the open. You can do that without apologizing...Just let her know that it's all good and she doesn't have to worry about it happening again because you respect her feelings or some sh-t like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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madgame

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Kid, please do not think that I am harsh okay, but I will give you the three steps that you must do in this situation...you ready....

1. NOT GIVE A FVCK.
2. NOT GIVE ANOTHER FVCK.
3. CONTINUE NOT GIVING A FVCK.
Shyt, this is actually the only reason why I still come here (other than for doing my BC journal). If you read some threads sooner or later u gonna have to laugh b/c of some funny bullsh...t
 
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