Folks, yesterday at the gym, I saw another lady who I thought had a really big ass when she used to wear spandex. Yesterday, she had regular pants on and her ass was so flat, it was really disappointing to me. Spandex must be amazing material to augment women's forms to such a degree. If a woman's ass still looks big without spandex on and in loose pants and jeans, that confirms to me for sure that she has a big ass and I'd love to talk to her. That's why many times I prefer to hold off until I get a chance to see a particular woman again without spandex on.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Spandex on Women is Really Deceiving
- Thread starter Frank2500
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes spandex for women is like pantyhose etc. It is form shaping. It shapes their fat into a toned shape to deceive men. Frank, I was wondering where you been. I'm not sure if you ever updates on that date with the one girl you had planned.Frank2500 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Re: Update on the Super Big Booty Woman at My Gym
For those who wanted an update on the super big booty woman I had been talking to at my gym now for almost a year but who kept on playing the waiting game with me as far as letting me have her number, there isn't any good news to report, unfortunately. That's why I didn't even waste my time bringing her up again on the forum. She turned out to be just another game player-probably one of those women who love attention so much that they enjoy giving men their phone numbers and not calling them back. That's what happened to me. I called her once, she never called me back, so I let it go.
After that, I went out of state for Thanksgiving and was away from the gym for about a week and a half to two weeks, so she and I didn't get to cross paths since then. It was only last Saturday that we almost bumped into one antoehr as we ran into each other at the hallway at the gym. From the look in her eyes, she seemed to feel a sense of guilt, but I walked right past her as if we'd never talked before. I'm not going to make her think I'm desperate for her to call me. I don't care how big a woman's ass may be. If she's into playing games or is cold and insensitive in any way, I move on at the first hint. At 29, I'm a bit too old to be chasing after women like a man in his early 20s or to have any woman in this country try to put me in their platonic friend zone. I deserve a lot better and I won't settle for less ever.
For those who wanted an update on the super big booty woman I had been talking to at my gym now for almost a year but who kept on playing the waiting game with me as far as letting me have her number, there isn't any good news to report, unfortunately. That's why I didn't even waste my time bringing her up again on the forum. She turned out to be just another game player-probably one of those women who love attention so much that they enjoy giving men their phone numbers and not calling them back. That's what happened to me. I called her once, she never called me back, so I let it go.
After that, I went out of state for Thanksgiving and was away from the gym for about a week and a half to two weeks, so she and I didn't get to cross paths since then. It was only last Saturday that we almost bumped into one antoehr as we ran into each other at the hallway at the gym. From the look in her eyes, she seemed to feel a sense of guilt, but I walked right past her as if we'd never talked before. I'm not going to make her think I'm desperate for her to call me. I don't care how big a woman's ass may be. If she's into playing games or is cold and insensitive in any way, I move on at the first hint. At 29, I'm a bit too old to be chasing after women like a man in his early 20s or to have any woman in this country try to put me in their platonic friend zone. I deserve a lot better and I won't settle for less ever.
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Spandex is a creation of the 1980's hor attire!! Hors wear this to attract the
fools who follow their deception!!
fools who follow their deception!!