Folks, yesterday at the gym, I saw another lady who I thought had a really big ass when she used to wear spandex. Yesterday, she had regular pants on and her ass was so flat, it was really disappointing to me. Spandex must be amazing material to augment women's forms to such a degree. If a woman's ass still looks big without spandex on and in loose pants and jeans, that confirms to me for sure that she has a big ass and I'd love to talk to her. That's why many times I prefer to hold off until I get a chance to see a particular woman again without spandex on.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Spandex on Women is Really Deceiving
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes spandex for women is like pantyhose etc. It is form shaping. It shapes their fat into a toned shape to deceive men. Frank, I was wondering where you been. I'm not sure if you ever updates on that date with the one girl you had planned.Frank2500 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Re: Update on the Super Big Booty Woman at My Gym
For those who wanted an update on the super big booty woman I had been talking to at my gym now for almost a year but who kept on playing the waiting game with me as far as letting me have her number, there isn't any good news to report, unfortunately. That's why I didn't even waste my time bringing her up again on the forum. She turned out to be just another game player-probably one of those women who love attention so much that they enjoy giving men their phone numbers and not calling them back. That's what happened to me. I called her once, she never called me back, so I let it go.
After that, I went out of state for Thanksgiving and was away from the gym for about a week and a half to two weeks, so she and I didn't get to cross paths since then. It was only last Saturday that we almost bumped into one antoehr as we ran into each other at the hallway at the gym. From the look in her eyes, she seemed to feel a sense of guilt, but I walked right past her as if we'd never talked before. I'm not going to make her think I'm desperate for her to call me. I don't care how big a woman's ass may be. If she's into playing games or is cold and insensitive in any way, I move on at the first hint. At 29, I'm a bit too old to be chasing after women like a man in his early 20s or to have any woman in this country try to put me in their platonic friend zone. I deserve a lot better and I won't settle for less ever.
For those who wanted an update on the super big booty woman I had been talking to at my gym now for almost a year but who kept on playing the waiting game with me as far as letting me have her number, there isn't any good news to report, unfortunately. That's why I didn't even waste my time bringing her up again on the forum. She turned out to be just another game player-probably one of those women who love attention so much that they enjoy giving men their phone numbers and not calling them back. That's what happened to me. I called her once, she never called me back, so I let it go.
After that, I went out of state for Thanksgiving and was away from the gym for about a week and a half to two weeks, so she and I didn't get to cross paths since then. It was only last Saturday that we almost bumped into one antoehr as we ran into each other at the hallway at the gym. From the look in her eyes, she seemed to feel a sense of guilt, but I walked right past her as if we'd never talked before. I'm not going to make her think I'm desperate for her to call me. I don't care how big a woman's ass may be. If she's into playing games or is cold and insensitive in any way, I move on at the first hint. At 29, I'm a bit too old to be chasing after women like a man in his early 20s or to have any woman in this country try to put me in their platonic friend zone. I deserve a lot better and I won't settle for less ever.
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Spandex is a creation of the 1980's hor attire!! Hors wear this to attract the
fools who follow their deception!!
fools who follow their deception!!