"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi, I am going to Spain for vacation late may, was wondering if yall had any tips or heads ups on the senoritas and how to relate to them and what they may think of americans and all that. I want to def bang some of these gorgeous spanish women
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You had better be prepared to hold your own because most of the best natural DJs of the world hail from Spain and Italy. Don't try to compete with them, learn their ways...
 

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Minneapolis eh?, thats where im orignally from..
well anyway I must say thats an interesting point that I'll take note of, but really doesn't help me much.
 

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Just go out there and have some fun man. When I vacationed there a few years ago, I had the tourist glow going on. It's like you're so excited to be in a new place, exploring stuff that you just radiate this aura of confidence and happiness. No girl in her right mind can ignore that sh*t.

If you're really smooth, the senoritas won't mind retarded 7th grade spanish. If all else fails, act like you are rich and are looking for a beautiful Spanish wife :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shizam, **** any senoritas while u were vacationing in spain?
...a friend of mine whos been to spain and fluent, said many girls there will know more english then i do spanish..so that i sholdn't have too many prob with that
haha i hope so..
yeah in my mind I have this idea where to them I will seem unique, and different - the same way i seem them as exotic perhaps they do too?
perhaps the chicas will want to brag to their chicas about how awesome it as to be slammed by a handsome american
how much diff are they from american women?
less stuck up..more?
less primiscuous...more?
either way im going to have fun... but I wouldn't mind having a few intimately wonderful nights with some bonita spanish girls
 

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arealman said:
Minneapolis eh?, thats where im orignally from..
well anyway I must say thats an interesting point that I'll take note of, but really doesn't help me much.
In a nutshell, they can smell bullsh1t a mile away. If you are going to drop on line, make sure that it's original, specific and no beating around the bush with the games that you have to play with American women. Be confident, ****y and specific.
 
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